Self-esteem of a teenager and its connection with socialization.

The adolescent period in a person's life is not in vain called the most difficult age stage. After all, it is at this time, there is a physiological restructuring of the body, which entails physical and psychological changes. The child begins to grow quickly and disproportionately, too high a growth causes many to stoop, the movements become angular and clumsy. A sharp hormonal splash provokes the appearance of acne, acne, dandruff. Naturally, the self-esteem of a teenager suffers significantly from such transformations and it takes a lot of effort on the part of the adult people surrounding him, so that he again feels calm and confident.

In adolescence, the authority of parents is sharply reduced, the opinion of peers becomes important for the child. However, parents also play an important role in the formation of the adolescent's personality. During this period, the child especially needs praise, approval and support of the family. Self-esteem of a teenager increases dramatically if he sees his importance and feels love from his parents. Of course, during this period, the children can observe increased excitability, sharp mood swings, emotional instability. Therefore, parents need to show an angelic patience for their children, and resolve all conflicts constructively. Otherwise, the self-esteem of a teenager will be understated, and in the mood will be dominated by sadness, sadness, hatred, anxiety.

If the child does not receive sufficient support in the family, then he joins various teenage organizations, which, in his opinion, will help him to realize himself. The teenager will seek approval from his friends, and will try to take the lead in this team. If the adolescent's self-esteem does not find support in the society, if the child becomes an outcast or is constantly subjected to ridicule, then gradually, he gets a feeling of personal discomfort and blocks the need for respect, which can lead to problems in adulthood.

Naturally, there are features of self-esteem in adolescence, which teachers and parents need to take into account. Self-esteem in a teenager is not yet fully formed, so it is not stable and not differentiated. The child tries to analyze his actions, builds his plans, quickly passes from emotional take-off and self-confidence to disappointment and doubt in his abilities. Self-evaluation regulates the behavior of an individual. Adolescents with overestimated self-esteem tend to over- praise themselves, try to take a leading position, which provokes conflicts with peers. Frequent quarrels can lead to the formation of such qualities as resentment, aggressiveness, arrogance. Children with low self-esteem, on the contrary, feel constant uncertainty, become withdrawn, they have various complexes.

If parents notice that their child has a greatly understated or inflated self-esteem, then they should immediately turn to specialists. Self-esteem of a teenager's personality is easily amenable to correction. A child who has received timely help will be able to find a common language with peers, parents, teachers. Adequate evaluation of their abilities, will allow a teenager to work out the correct line of command for him, learn to analyze his actions and the actions of others. Internal stability, protect the child of bad companies, because he will have a stable viewpoint on good and evil, he can perfectly study, set goals and achieve them by hard work.

Parents and educators need to help a growing person to survive, a difficult period for the person, which, nevertheless, is a very important stage on the way to adulthood.