Feast of love, family and fidelity: history, script

Not everything that comes to us from Europe, bears in itself the benefit. The European way of life, the desire to be like them, led to the fact that the institution of the family in the last 30 years has lost its original meaning for many young people. In the first place came career, material security and unwillingness to take responsibility for other people.

Everything begins with family

To revive family traditions, various state programs are trying today, and, I must say, is not unsuccessful. The holiday of love, family and fidelity is one of the programs that, despite its youth, has already grown fond of millions of our fellow citizens.

The family lost its importance as a social institution and an instrument of influence in the mid-1980s. Although, while there was "an indestructible union", attempts were made to preserve the "cell of society" actively. Mestkoms, trade union committees, meetings strongly opposed the dissolution of marriages, coming up with all kinds of fines and conducting explanatory talks with "immoral" employees. With the entry into the era of freedom and democracy, there was no one to observe the moral image of citizens, and families began to disintegrate more often.

In the troubled times of change, the question of financial well-being came first. Those families that were created in the early 90's, how they could bring up the younger generation. As a result, we have a society in which family values and traditions are practically lost.

Chamomile

Each holiday should have its own special symbol. The holiday of love, family and loyalty is no exception. Chamomile is chosen as the symbol - the most favorite flower of the field, symbolizing purity, fidelity and tenderness. In addition, almost all lovers are guessing on her petals: "he likes - he does not like". This symbol is also depicted on one side of the medal, which was issued specifically for this holiday.

Origins

The holiday of love, family and fidelity, whose history is not familiar to everyone, sends us to the city of Murom in the far 1203 year. It was there that the touching story of the Grand Duke of Murom Peter and the wife of his Fevronia, known for his medicinal abilities and wisdom, began and ended.

The prince refused to rule for the sake of his beloved, but the people and the boyars persuaded him to return, taking Fephonia as his legal wife and princess. The couple lived long happy years, rules wisely and died on the same day. And even after their death, when they were buried according to the rules in different monasteries, Peter and Fevronia found themselves in one tomb. This phenomenon was called a miracle. Although in the history of Russia there are many examples where the spouses shared grief, maintaining their faithfulness.

One of such examples is the family of Prince Dmitry Donskoy. His wife, Princess Evdokia, not only supported Dmitry and blessed her for military campaigns in defense of the lands of the Russians. She became the keeper of the hearth, held the Kremlin in strict severity and order, gave birth to the prince twelve children. After Dmitry Donskoy's death, Evdokia remained faithful to him.

But, perhaps, the most striking example of family fidelity is the example of the Romanov family. Emperor Nicholas II and his wife Alexandra Feodorovna lived a happy life, loved each other and remained faithful until the last breath. Despite the terrible trials that the royal family underwent, they could not part even to save their lives.

Church

At the source of many holidays there is a church. In addition, she calls for keeping the family. The holiday of love, family and fidelity is also related to the church. It is celebrated on July 8, that day Peter and Fevronia died. They were very revered, and almost 300 years after their death they were elevated to the rank of saints. Until now, all who dream of a strong and happy family, come to bow to the relics of saints in the Holy Trinity Monastery of the city of Murom. In the same place, between the male and female monastery, on Monastyrskaya Polyana, a monument to the couple Peter and Fevronia is erected.

The state scale

The Day of Family, Love and Fidelity Day was introduced in 2008 as part of the state family support program. A special medal "For Faithfulness" was specially made: on one side - Saint Peter and Fevronia, on the other - a symbol of fidelity - a daisy. In addition, in many cities of Russia there are monuments not only to saints, but also monuments depicting the family.

Activities are held in city parks and outside the city. In the squares you can not only become a witness, but also a participant in a street performance. The organizers of the celebration are not only the city administration. Many funds try to support the Day of Love, Family and Fidelity on this day. Congratulations also sound from the first persons of the state, from favorite actors and pop stars. Charitable concerts held on this day, give joy not only to the audience, but also to small children who have remained without their parents.

wedding ceremony

Couples planning to create a family, try to do it on July 8, as it is believed that the union concluded on this day will be happy. That's why so many beautiful white dresses and shining eyes!

In addition, it is rare when you meet so many married couples who are worthy of respect and imitation, because the holiday - Day of Family, Love and Fidelity - is a very good occasion to reward conjugal unions that managed to preserve love and fidelity to each other for 25 years or more. It was for them that the medal "For love and for loyalty" was created, which, together with other gifts, is given by the organizers of the holiday, representatives of various funds and the city administration.

The only thing that can not be done on this day is to marry. The holiday of love, family and fidelity falls at the end of the Petrov fast, so the wedding should be postponed until July 13.

School upbringing

The school helps to bring up family values . Feast Day of love, family and fidelity falls on the summer holidays, but teachers do not bypass this topic. Educational hours, extracurricular and extra-curricular activities gather large audiences. Parents are happy to watch the performance of their children, take part in games and competitions.

The state assigns a great responsibility to the school not only for the knowledge that children acquire, but also for the moral principles and human qualities that the school brings up. It helps in this holiday of love, family and loyalty. The scenario of the event is compiled by the teachers together with the children. This approach to the celebration organization not only develops creative abilities and helps to find talents, but also unites.

The smallest

Watching the kids during their performances is fun and touching. Their childlike sincerity and immediacy touches. The holiday of love, family and fidelity in the DOW always attracts a large audience. Performances of small artists help to unite families and build relationships in a children's team, because a kindergarten is also a family. It is here that the child spends most of his time.

Communicating children in the garden is an important moment. Educators should pay special attention to the climate in the team. Ability to communicate and build relationships with each other, respect and help is being pawned at this age.

So, how to celebrate a holiday of love, family and loyalty? The script should be calculated no more than 30-45 minutes, because children from 3 to 6 years of age are difficult to concentrate on one event, no matter how interesting it may be.

As decorations for the hall, in addition to traditional balloons, you can choose children's drawings about the family, photos from family albums.

Variant of the holiday scenario

Host: "Grandmothers and mothers, brothers, sisters and dads, grandfathers, uncles and aunts! Good day, how wonderful it is to spend together the Day of Love, Family and Fidelity! And our little gala concert starts the smallest!"

Children go out and sing a song about the family

Q: "Dear adults, for each of you in the word" family "has its own meaning, let's listen to what your kids are saying about the family!"

On the screen, cutting video with the statements of children about the family.

Q: "Every holiday must have its own sign, symbol." There is also our family celebration. "

A girl comes out dressed as a daisy and tells a poem:

"The white daisy is the sun in the middle,

On the edges are white petals-ice cubes.

I'll tear off the daisy, I'll sit down, I'll pay,

That he loves me, now I know for sure!

(Gives all the guests chamomile) "

R: "Let each of you now have a little sun and warm your family!"

Q: "The morning is always good, when the house smells of baking, when all the relatives gather at a big table!" And for a meal to be tasty, let's ask our grandmother's favorite pancakes! "

The children come out and sing the song "Grandma, bake pancakes"

Q: "It is always accepted to help in the family, and since we are also a big family, let's see how the children are able to help each other."

Competition for the best tie a tie for boys and a better hairstyle for girls.

Q: "And now our guys will tell you how much they love their dads and moms."

Children leave and read poems about their parents.

Q: "And at the conclusion of our holiday, let us recall the most touching moments from the history of each family."

A presentation appears on the screen, created from family photos of all participants of the holiday, accompanied by a song about the family.

The holiday of love, family and loyalty in the kindergarten is a very important event, however, like other holidays. To bring up love for the family is necessary not only for children, but also for their parents. The more often such events take place, the sooner our families will have peace and harmony.