What to do if a husband insults his wife and children

Everyone dreams of a strong and happy family, but often it happens that all these dreams collapse under the burden of time and the burden of quarrels and scandals. The right way to put an end to this is to reconcile with your soul mate. But what if no one wants to make concessions, if the husband insults, and the wife only pours oil on the fire?

Do you want to be happy or right?

Often the originator of the quarrel is the wife (this is bitter, but still the truth). But what if the husband insults his wife and children, fanning scandals on an equal footing, while trying in every way to humiliate his relatives? From the physical point of view, the wife is a very weak creature who can hardly stand up for herself, but this does not give the man any right to insult her, let alone humiliate her. If the husband during the quarrels clearly hints at his physical advantage, the wife can only remain silent or become a victim of physical violence. It happens that the whole conflict can be solved with a simple conversation. It is enough to ask your second half the question: "Do you want to be happy or right?". If a person is important relationships, then, of course, he will stop to conflict. But if his pride is important to him, he will not even ponder over this question or turn it into another reason for scandal.

Why do families quarrel and how to avoid them?

It is very difficult to answer this question. Everything depends on the person, on his attitude towards his second half, on the perception of the environment, on the influence of the psychological factor. In general, there are many reasons that in one way or another affect the perception of one person by another. If the husband insults for no apparent reason, perhaps the cause of irritability should be sought in himself? It is not superfluous to turn to a psychologist who will not only help to understand the problem, but also will prompt ways to solve it. Perhaps the wife just does not notice or does not want to notice her guilt. In this case, the psychologist should contact both. The problem can be solved without a psychoanalyst - just sit and talk heart to heart, frankly. The main thing is that such conversations do not cause new quarrels and scandals.

The husband insults and beats - save!

Often, wives become victims of physical violence from their husbands. A spouse can beat his wife not only on a drunken head, but also on sober, which is much worse than if it happened under the influence of alcohol. Why is that? Everything is very simple. Under the influence of alcohol a person becomes irritable, his normal perception of the environment is dull, that is, in most cases he simply does not understand what he is doing. In such cases, it is possible to fight a person. On a sober head, he not only understands what he does, but indulges in it, that is, he does it consciously. In the second case, we have obvious signs of tyranny, it is almost impossible to struggle with which it is very difficult. If the husband insults his wife and children consciously, then it is unlikely that something can be done about this. There is only one thing left - a divorce. No matter how hard it is for a wife, it's worth it, because if the husband strikes once, the second one will also be struck.