Prevention of Brawls

In the people they say: "Lovely people are being scolded - they just play!" But family psychologists say that nothing so violates the family as a quarrel. And more: a quarrel is much easier to prevent than to eliminate its consequences. Therefore, in this article, it will be specifically about the prevention of quarrels.

Family psychologists are sure that the basis of a strong family is the respect of the spouses to each other. And without this solid foundation there will be construction on the sand. And if family quarrels begin in the family, they quickly and easily destroy it, how quickly the house collapses without a reliable foundation.
Attentiveness, tact and patience are all derivatives of people's respect for each other. When they are, all problems and issues are solved peacefully, and the faults and awkwardness are not condemned, but are removed with friendly humor.
Children in such families grow calm and balanced, accepting a similar pattern of behavior from childhood.
They learn to respect the opposite point of view and someone else's opinion. Tolerance helps them avoid conflict. Therefore, first of all, family psychologists teach family members to show respect to each other. And not only in deeds, but also in words, because nothing hurts so painfully as a rude word. It is important not only the content, but also the tone with which these or other words are pronounced. It is not for nothing that it says: "You would be the same, yes, you would not say so."
All quarrels begin with resentment. And this is often a reaction to the word. And the action of a rude word in the family is much stricter, since there is no internal protection, people are open to each other.
But what if you said something is wrong?
Family psychologists advise quickly, without wasting time resorting to the saving phrase: "Sorry, I did not mean to offend you!" One phrase will remove the severity of the reaction, after which it is already possible to calmly explain. This phrase can become the savior of the family world, since it removes the insult and turns the situation into a more peaceful channel. When you calmly talk, your loved one will certainly appreciate such a timely apology, and, perhaps, he himself will apologize if he was wrong. The main thing is not to let a quarrel develop-the main destroyer of family happiness!