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Is the Eiser system good or bad?
Did you know that the Eiser system exists only in the Russian-language search engine. We consider this to be a Japanese method of educating preschool children. But any search engine on foreign sites does not find anything on the request "Eiser system." Wikipedia also does not know such a thing. And in Japan, such a system, in all probability, no. That begs the question: "What is Eiser's education system?"
Our parents, adopting the experience of the Japanese, forget about a different mentality and social conditions. In addition, the Eisera system clearly exaggerates the need to abolish prohibitions for children.
We interpret this as a complete absence of prohibitions for children under 7 years old. Imagine a situation that your child wants to put a piece of wire in the outlet, will you let him? I doubt it. And imagine that he falls in the middle of the store and requires a toy. He also has the right to do so. You educate him on this system. How do you like this?
The Eiser system has an excellent replacement, which is exactly suitable for every country and every parent. Do not forbid the child anything! Do not Cry! Do not scold him for trying to do something wrong! A child is a small MAN! Do you like bans or screaming at your address? Of course not. Let's then, instead of the words "this can not be done", "do not you dare do this", "do not do it", we'll say "it's not good to do it, because ...". Each of us knows why this or that is bad or not, and the child does not know it yet. Explain it to him. Use for clarification in simple and understandable words, give examples and let the child look at the situation from the other side.
The child must learn not only the experience of parents. He must comprehend many things himself. But the rejection of the role of the parent in upbringing, giving him the opportunity to do everything, can not be an excellent option. You must guide your child, explain to him, prevent acts that harm him and others. Do not forbid! Help to understand that this is not good!
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