How to start life after a divorce

Divorce is considered quite a difficult and unpleasant period in the life of any person, both for women and for men. At first glance, it seems that life after the divorce has stopped, but it is not so, it is just necessary to put up with it and start a new and happy life. After all, everything that is done - is done for the better! Of course, initially in the house everything is reminiscent of the past life and about the person with whom you lived a certain period of time. The bed you chose together, the TV that was presented to you for the wedding, the coffee table because of which you quarreled so long at the time of purchase - everything reminds you of it. Walking down the street you see places in which so often spent time together, and in the restaurant you again order your family traditional dish.

Therefore, for starters, you should get rid of old things that are so reminiscent of your past life, throw away all the joint disks, albums, books, things, gifts, surprises, everything that evokes even the slightest memories. Make repairs in the apartment, it will save you from unnecessary suffering and will give you the opportunity to shift your attention to your household chores. Stop going to the restaurants and cafes that are usual for you, find and choose some special cafe where you will feel much more comfortable. Remove all correspondence from your mobile phone and, if necessary, dispose of all contact numbers.

Of course, after the divorce, two people become strangers to each other and it's good if their family has not had time to have children. And if there is, then it must be remembered that children during the divorce of their parents suffer a great psychological trauma. The consequences of divorce for children are quite diverse and can lead to unpleasant consequences. Especially hard to survive the divorce of their parents are children of adolescence. Therefore, both mom and dad need to step over themselves and try together in a calm voice, intelligently and without any insults to explain to the child why the parents can not live together. And that, in spite of what happened, they still love their child and can, as before, see and walk with him as long as they want.

How to start life after a divorce? In all ages, in all centuries, experts advise to plunge into the work with a head. Yes, at first it is very difficult, because it is simply impossible to concentrate , every little thing causes tears in your eyes, and because of nerves you make many mistakes. And this is normal, such a state is natural, after a short time your brain will automatically switch to work only. After all, work has always helped to cope with the depressed state.

Initially, life after the divorce seems unbearable and very difficult, so it would be good to change the situation. To do this, it is best to go with friends or relatives somewhere to rest, visit new places, swim in the salt sea, bask in the sun, go through a variety of interesting tourist routes. You will see that life is not so gray, and around there are many interesting, unidentified and beautiful.

Of course, life after the divorce is very different, many can experience an inferiority complex and believe that the fault of all that happened is themselves. So, for example, a woman thinks that her husband left her because she did not cook well, gave him little time, did not arrange in bed, did not have a beautiful slender figure.

Forget about it! Love yourself for who you are, in no case put a cross on yourself. Take your girlfriends and go to the store, buy yourself new beautiful things, visit the beauty salon, change your hair. Sign in the gym, go to fitness, swimming pool, find a new occupation and passion. Do not stay alone at home with your thoughts, communicate with friends, make new acquaintances and in the near future you will find your soul mate, because life after the divorce is just beginning!