How to properly overcome a man his age crisis

There are men who constantly live in some kind of continuous crisis: everything is not right for them, they do not like everything, there are some solid problems around. But psychologists say that there are certain age limits, when the age-old crisis in men actually comes.

The age crisis in children usually occurs in one year, at three, and also at seven years. And there is no clear distinction between boys and girls, but in the transition years, young men and girls are experiencing each of their age-related crises.

So, the first serious age crisis is the transition period (13-15 years).

He is associated not only with hormonal changes in the body of a young man, but also with constant attempts to find his place in society. Often teenagers become uncontrollable, they have nervous breakdowns, it is at this age that narcotic or alcohol dependence can develop . Help your son can parents. To do this, it is necessary to penetrate the inner world of the teenager, to find out what he is interested in, to accept his musical preferences, style of clothes, outlook on life. What some adults consider promiscuity is just an intricate search for oneself.

The second age crisis comes to the American age, stretching for some to twenty-three years. At this age, young people are already beginning to make serious plans for further life, of course, in their dreams they are famous, their children adore, their wife is a passionate beauty and an excellent hostess in combination, they have villas by the ocean and expensive cars. These dreams are often far from the gray reality and everyday life. Some decide to jump over several levels and marry at this age to appear to themselves and others more adult, the real head of the family.

Further, closer to thirty years (some people this age crisis comes in 27-28 years), finally comes the realization that dreams were full of delirium, that they are not destined to come true and then the terrible word "never" comes. A young man realizes that he will never have a villa, that he can not be the first in everything, and he will not become a celebrity either. Family is a busy life, lack of money, constant problems, and not happy smiling faces from advertising coffee. Some at this age go into a severe depression, begin to drink heavily, start romances on the side. You can get out of this state if you evaluate your forces adequately and begin to set yourself achievable goals.

And it seems like life is improving, life is arranged, the goals of men are set to learn, with the unattainable reconciled, but then the most terrible, most protracted and most disappointing crisis creeps up. He comes to 37-39 years, when a man begins to not just understand the mind, but also to feel physically that he is still mortal. There are wrinkles, bald patches, periodically gives health, sometimes brings potency, money no longer brings the former satisfaction, I want to find a job for the soul. Men, due to hormonal failures, become more sentimental, they need understanding, but teenage children are too prickly, and the wife struggles with her crisis. And then all the same irreplaceable comrades come to the rescue: drunkenness, debauchery, treason. Only betrayals are now some funny: adult uncles are trying to drag as many young girls as possible to bed, in order to assert themselves. And again a wave of divorces comes, because as soon as a very wise woman can understand and forgive such actions of the spouse.

Apparently, the age crisis for men is interrupted by short years of quiet life. But women, knowing and understanding their loved ones, are able to help them cope with any life troubles, help overcome crises, caress and regret.