Future Husband - Programmer: Mistakes Forgive, But On The Detector Plant And If You Need To Mop Up

- When is the wedding?

- Never !!!! - I shouted back to my neighbor when I talked with my friend.

He asked, of course, as a joke, because we stood and talked so sweetly, but not at all about us, discussed some vital issues, joked and shared plans for the weekend.

But, my answer was far from comic.

We were just talking about our common friend, whom we would like to meet, take a walk "in our way". To us, her arrival is strictly forbidden by the home "Ministry of Health" at the head of the guy - the future husband. We can come, but we will not be able to walk "our way", the head of the Ministry of Health will have to take with him, or he will not want to, and he will not let go one. And for what is so much sarcasm, complex intricate sentences? But the real story.

They live together, but have not yet been painted, and the girlfriend is already under a "hard shoe", I tried this situation on myself and saw myself in a burqa, in a psychological prison.

Could there be an occasion for him? - the question arises. There was a reason.

Jealousy for sms, thoughts in the head, illusions and happiness without it.

Now he has free access to pages and correspondence in social networks, mail, sms and directory, left to put wiretaps, hidden cameras and hire a private detective. Well, if it is so, then you can spend and buy a lie detector, there were suspicions or sms all erased, there is no time to watch - "Honey, you are waiting for the detector."

The next question is - What should I do? She herself gave a reason for jealousy, now get out. Or be reconciled and be beloved entirely for your boyfriend.

This is just one horror story from a small almost family experience of a friend.

He still remembers her with every kind word, there was a sin, but only in thought, treachery was neither physical nor in feelings.

I met a guy who once was madly in love, only then he preferred another, after years came to his senses, looked well and decided to meet.

Her heart a little jumped, well, met, talked and said: I'm waiting for a guy from the army, I love him and in the future I see my husband.

But in the correspondence gave vent to emotions. So what, nothing these SMS, in real life it was nothing.

A guy came from the army, everything is fine, only in the middle of the night she calls her from another, she sleeps, the guy picks up the phone and ... then reads the SMS, and then come to me, etc. etc.

All the next day, total control, telephone directory sms, calls, hacking the page in contact, and there this treacherous correspondence.

He also has a programmer. Well, everything, confess, changed? So far, things have gathered and gone ... Crying, calling me, I reassured, he will not go anywhere. Soon they had a conversation: they listened, forgave, but took a note and remembered this case, trust zero, her friend, that is, I was the enemy number one, encouraged, approved her communication on the side, she knew everything and hid from him. In total, I did not know, and the best friend to take with the giblets, this is not for me.

Now we do not correspond, just call up, home from work, it comes before him, therefore, on topics of conversation we have no limit.

On this, his mockery did not end, it hurt him very, very strongly and for a long time.

Next step. Eradicate the enemy from the mind, knock it out of your head, and then suddenly again decide to take the storm by heart.

And it is better to erase from memory this, because of which it is necessary to go to such methods.

He invited her to watch the film, Jim Carrey, starring, there is no comedy, melodrama, where the heroine Kate Winslet fell in love with the hero Jimma Kerry, but then, unexpectedly for him, turned to an agency where they can erase memories of a person and events related with him.

"Oh, my God," I said to my friend, "he would also like to send you to such a procedure." If anyone should be sent there, it's him, now she's afraid of someone else besides him. He thinks about this mistake and its tempter more than she does.

And for dessert, the password on the mailbox is now a beautiful and sonorous name in the diminutive form of the same snake tempter.

Over the last mockery, I laughed for a long time, but then I thought, it's serious. It is impossible so, returned, forgiven, love, everything is good, you need to build relationships, create coziness in the house, think about the future. But no, the past constantly worries him, then her, as a consequence, conflicts, what's next?

She does not have enough communication, I am a victim of this situation, I, of course, understand her relationship, I am for her happiness, but she is happy, if it continues. I was terribly bored, I want to meet live, go to the movies, the club does not matter.

How to spend leisure time in their pair decides, of course, he, so they do not often, go somewhere. She has to choose, if only she was happy, but I was disappointed strongly, love, mutual understanding, trust, in their pair there is no, in my subjective opinion, there is a habit, comfort and awareness that you are not alone.

Therefore, I'm not in a hurry to get married, I have not received any offers, even potentially no one, but, if I do, I will not hurry.

That's why she never cried like that, in response to her neighbor. First of all, I want to love and be loved, to know that there is trust and understanding in my love, then I can decide to say yes, cross the threshold of the registry office in a white dress, wear an engagement ring, take his name or not take it ... but this is already Another story.