Why wives change their husbands: an excursion to the female brain

In the countries of Europe, the United States and here in the CIS, approximately 42% of women change their spouses. As a rule, men in such situations for the most part try to hide their emotions. However, the fact remains - female infidelity is now one of the most pressing problems of society. A worried men betrayal at times even more difficult than the fair sex. First, let's find out why wives change their husbands.

Causes

Some women seek to once again feel loved and desired. Others, changing their spouse, want to take revenge on him for his betrayal. Among the most common reasons why wives change their husbands, we can distinguish the following:

• Feeling of loneliness (occurs predominantly among housewives);
• Unwillingness of the partner to talk with his wife, to take an active part in her life and discuss her problems and experiences;
• Feeling that the husband no longer finds her attractive in sexual terms;
• Absence of tenderness and love from the spouse;
• The husband is too keen on his work or some kind of hobby, spends little time in the walls of the house;
• The desire to get rid of everyday life;
• Lack of romance in bed;
• Boredom or interest;
• Desire to feel themselves in a personal life as strong as in the sphere of career;
• Resentment of the spouse.

Sometimes, unexpectedly even for herself, a woman begins to actively communicate with her former partner, school or university love. According to statistics, very often such an innocent at first glance communication of "old acquaintances" ends in bed.

"Will I kill this ***!" Or ... this?

Practice shows that in our age, when there is practically no censorship in the literature, press, on TV, almost all women sooner or later think about getting some kind of sexual experience with a representative of their gender. Why do wives betray their husbands with other girls? There are also reasons for that.

The most banal among them is the lack of understanding on the part of men. Several times disappointed in a variety of partners, a woman might think that no one will understand it better than another.

Many people are driven by ordinary curiosity, the desire for new non-standard sensations (both physically and emotionally).

How to find out?

In fact, signs of female infidelity are always evident. The problem is that many devotees and loving husbands do not want to notice them until the last, and they start fussing even when it is almost impossible to save a marriage.

The first sign of betrayal is that the wife begins to sharply limit her personal space (access to a mobile phone, accounts in social networks and a computer in general). Like men, women, tying new relationships, begin to pay much more attention to their appearance. Another alarm signal - his wife has a new company of friends or girlfriends with whom she spends almost all her free time, not showing a special desire to introduce them to her husband.

The most unpleasant sign of betrayal is, of course, cooling in bed. If she lays down earlier or later the spouse, explaining it different reasons, it is likely that the man became uninteresting to her and she simply avoids having sex with him.

Even in terms of quarrels, everything changes: if before they were similar to the outset of the Third World War, then the girl who changes, will completely spit. But at the same time, she will begin to focus on all the flaws of the faithful, whom she did not notice at all before.

Forgive can not be reconciled: where to put a comma?

So, we have considered the main reasons why wives change their husbands. Listed and ways to learn about the infidelity of his beloved. However, the most important question remains - is it worth to forgive betrayal in general?

There is an opinion among the people that there are wives who never change their spouses, but there are none who would change only once.

In addition, if for a man a betrayal is nothing more than a physical desire, then the woman betrays her spouse emotionally long before the first sex with her lover. To forgive treason or not? The answer to this question must be sought only in the depths of one's heart.

PS But those whose wives have a mistress, you can give two tips at the same time: break the relationship or come at the most inopportune moment and ... join! :) If the wife you dear, in this case, you can just let it feel to her that you are "on the same side of the barricade." Perhaps, after such a relationship will be even better than before.