Trouble: how to live on

Life is arranged so that no one can know for sure what awaits it next. Do not predict either your fate or the fate of your friends and loved ones. Who can say that tomorrow he will not be fired from a job that was absolutely everything to him? Who can be sure that he does not have to part with the closest and dearest person? You need to be strong and, of course, you need to be prepared for everything. It is necessary to know how to live further, if a great misfortune happened, which crossed out absolutely everything that was before. To search for a new meaning of existence is difficult, but without this in any way. Anyone who does not know how to live further after a disaster, is lost and ceases to live a full life. Misfortunes happen. They can not be avoided. The world is cruel, but still it contains a lot of good in itself.

How can I continue to live?

The most difficult loss for a person is the loss of someone dear, close to the heart. Parents, friends, relatives, loved ones ... With the death of one, the life of another can end. Especially often this happens when people are really close, when one can not imagine himself without the other.

All people are mortal. It's worth taking for granted. Believe, the lost person hardly wished that you put an end to your life. Surely he would like you to find the strength to recover and move on. Keep his image in your heart, but look forward with hope, with the knowledge that you will be able to become happy again. In such cases, it is necessary to spend a lot of time and energy in order to come to life. It's very good if there are people around who can help and feel your pain. If they are not, then try to find support among those who also lost a loved one.

How to live further after a serious injury? It's insulting to realize that you can never be like everyone else. But does life end there? In the world there is always someone worse than you. Be sure - many would change places with you. Do not get depressed. In fact, the possibilities of people are enormous and practically unlimited. Remember the great people who, having lost their hands, learned to play musical instruments with their feet, being paralyzed, they wrote great books. Many physically constrained people are able to create strong families and live happily. How do they do it? Yes, they just know how to accept reality for granted and understand that much they can not change. Realizing all this, they learn to enjoy what they are. None of them asks "how will we live on." They just live in harmony with the world.

Is it worth worrying about losing a job? Many really do not know how to live on, if what they are used to is disappearing. Believe me, the loss of work is not an excuse to get into a corner and think that life is over. Remember that many people became great precisely because they were given a good kick at the time. Failures and losses provide an opportunity to start everything from the very beginning, but it is much more deliberate. Have you spent a lot of time and got nothing? Do not be stupid! You have received an invaluable life experience, which is useful in the future.

How to live further after parting with a loved one? This topic is already so worn out that it seems like nothing new to say. Think with your head. If you really need this man - fight. If the fight does not bring results or causes someone (not only you) pain - go away worthy. They want to live happily without you - let them live. The world is big, but the fact that love happens only once in life - complete nonsense. If you feel bad after parting, then, most likely, you do not lack not the person himself, but what he gave you. Just spread a little and start a new life.

We hope that these tips will help you solve some difficulties. Do not lose heart, and everything will be fine.