Sexual Lip Infection

Hello. I am 32 years old. I lead a healthy lifestyle, cleanliness.

Problems began after marriage. Five years ago, U.urealyticum (Ureaplasma typing) and Ureaplasma species were found in the MDS (the center of molecular diagnostics), no more infections were detected, it was checked for all major, about 20. They passed a course of treatment with the husband, but there were periodic symptoms of thrush type We were treated ... Before the meeting with my husband, he was ill with syphilis, at present he has a stored prostatitis.

Two years ago we had a long-awaited child. Her daughter had an operation in three months, a diagnosis: a left-sided cyst-mortus-ademotogenic malformation. Though analyzes at me were good. I gave birth to myself. Now she is healthy. I breastfed until now. On the recommendation of doctors, she excommunicated the child from the breast. And not long before the menstrual troubles the itching, burning, redness and enlargement of the urogenital system.

After the months, the itching intensified, became very painful and restless. Hives appeared. Allocations are minor, there was no smell. I put 5 suppositories of Livarol for 5 days-course. I did not go to the gynecologist. Has bought or purchased a preparation independently. I did not have such strong irritations before. Thrush was usually treated with mycomam. I went for a week.

The itching passed. But on one large labia there was a little knob on the labia's lips , the size of a pea, purple, very painful, drawing pain, when touching, like an inflamed chiria. Tight clothes, such as trousers, can not be worn. The lip also increased. On the inner side of the labia majora, several violet birthmarks (nodules, dots) appeared, maybe even earlier, I did not notice. While I am suffering for two days, I know that it is impossible to delay. My husband says that nothing bothers you. We are not protected. While the affliction was painful once. Sensations are painful. After doing soda baths, which slightly removed the itch. The cold last month was ill three months ago.

Tell me, this cone is the result of infection, should it be removed? What should I do? Can I burn? Very afraid of oncology. Also I worry, for the child, whether her illnesses or diseases, an infection with thoracal milk could transfer to her?

Thank you very much.