Online Communication Moves To Real - Several Unsuccessful Continuations

If you somehow casually wandered to the dating site, and there was a guy who really liked you, and you agreed to meet with him, then you can make excitement on a date with all sorts of nonsense. Therefore, it is better to read these tips first, they are sure to be put off somewhere in your head, and in the most exciting moments you can keep yourself in the midst of courtesy by the brink of consciousness. Online communication is one thing, and a live meeting is completely different.

Here are some stories of unsuccessful visits, which my friends and acquaintances shared:

Olga's story: "A nice, well-dressed guy invited me somehow to a date. It was a long time ago, we met at the dawn of the Internet, on a site that would now be called a dating site. Since I was forced to save recently, I gladly agreed and thought that at last I could go somewhere in a decent place with linen tablecloths and flowers on the tables. But instead he said that he had a better idea, and invited me to his home. I howled inwardly. All would be nothing, but the owner of it is useless: the floor was greasy, in the sink was piled up a mountain of moldy dishes. And the owner himself, before putting the steak in the oven, suggested taking a joint bath. The next second he was pulling off his clothes, and I stood and stares with horror and disgust at his lean body. Yes, sometimes you think that online communication is much better. "

Katya's story: "One day, on the first date, the guy confused the road, and his car stalled somewhere in the mountains. All night we pushed her on the highway. The next morning all my muscles ached and ached, I could not even get out of bed. " The conclusion: do not agree to the first date far out of town, especially with a person you know not so long ago.

Alena's story: "One day a guy invited me to dinner (yes, it's still the same dating site) at lunchtime at work. It would seem that it can be bad to happen in a cafe. But the guy decided to shine with originality and had a picnic in the park. At a heat of 30 degrees. Well, what to say. My lovely costume stuck to my back, sweaty armpits, ants on the tablecloth, gnats in wine, buzzing wasps over my head. And only one thought that does not leave me during the whole meeting: "God, turn our meeting back into online communication. Oh please…".

So, you already understood what to do. Do not lose common sense and sober mind, and you will be happy on the first, second or tenth meetings. Also, you should not embellish yourself in a conversation before a personal meeting and during it, too, do not be mercenary, do not talk at the first date about marriage and do not throw the entire undercover of your medical record on the guy. You should not also pretend to be a peasant in a skirt, criticize everything and everything around, and save your sarcastic comments for your girlfriends. Men love charming and positive.

Yes, the first date is often not easy. Especially if before that you had only online communication. After all, on the letters on the screen you will never make a complete impression of the person. Yes, there even after several meetings, and then you open something new for yourself in the interlocutor. But still the dating site as a way to find a life partner should not be discounted.