I love married: how to deal with this and is it worth it?

An uncomplicated song about the fact that there are many guys around, but love only arose to one, and the married one, unfortunately, is an actual description of the life situation of many girls and women. "I love a married man ..." In someone's mouth this sounds hopeless and doomed, and someone, on the contrary, braves with such relations. Why do such situations arise? And what do they usually end with? Further - reflections on this topic.

To say with certainty that falling in love with married men is characteristic of any particular type of women, it is impossible. This can happen with a student who does not yet know life, and with the wise life experience of a scorched business lady. Fall into this "whirlpool" and women who seem to be loved, and those who lack romance in life. Only here feelings, emotions and, most often, suffering are very similar.

And conversations with friends, parents, or even psychologists begin, in which now and then one can hear: "I love a married man." It seems that a woman asks advice and seeks help, because in most cases it is clear that this feeling is simply necessary to get rid of! But if you admit yourself frankly, then, probably, some do not really want to. Many simply can not live without romantic experiences and sufferings. And, as practice shows, just the opportunity to say "I love a married man" for other young ladies is just a gift of fate! It's a chance to look for sympathy and complain about your hard share, which did not allow the two "halves" to meet earlier!

But there are also situations when it is out of the question to make a demonstrative statement: "I love a married man". For example, when the woman herself is in a marriage (or long-term and serious relationship). It's even harder! You have to experience everything yourself. And sometimes the torments are just awful.

Is it really worth hoping for anything at all? In life, everything is different. And, perhaps, loving people are better to reunite, even initially causing pain to abandoned previous partners. But often married men, reassuring mistress in their hot feelings, do not rush to leave his wife. And it can drag on for years! And what? He is comfortable and familiar! And the woman in love only remains, what to continue to share with close experiences on a theme "I love married". And wait…

Although if a man often prefers to go to the mother-in-law for pancakes on weekends, and on weekdays hurry to go with his wife to a supermarket, then, perhaps, in their family, everything is not so bad? Such a sober understanding of the situation can sometimes help to rethink the attitude towards the object of love. Maybe he is not an unhappy and tormented lover, but just a type that is always on the lookout for diversity? So why waste time on it?

When you look at those who bitterly (or proudly) say: "I love a married man," I think that there should be fewer such situations. After all, it is almost impossible to solve them painlessly! And give advice - an ungrateful occupation! The only advice that will definitely be relevant - do not try to idealize your lover and miss the ears of the loved ones.