Guest Marriages: Progress or Utopia

At present, such a form of marital relations as a guest marriage is no longer something new and unusual. It is believed that its formation began more than 40 years ago and now occurs quite often. Guest marriages mean marital relations without living together with each other. Many people believe that such a marriage involves infidelity on the part of both husband and wife. In fact, spouses who are in a guest marriage, often do not even think of treason, because they are in awe of waiting to meet with each other.

According to sociologists, the main reasons for this kind of marriage are a high level of self-sufficiency of men and women. If before a woman depended more on a man, since the husband has served as the earner and the main breadwinner since ancient times, now their roles are not clearly defined. After all, sometimes women earn much more than the stronger sex, so do not seek to share their life with another person.

Psychologists do not agree on the extent to which guest marriages have a positive impact on the development of society. Some believe that marriage at a distance is great for relations in the pre-wedding stage. But most often adherents of guest marriage are persons of an age category exceeding 30 years. At this time, both man and woman are realized in life, and children are getting older, so it makes no sense to keep the relationship that strains both spouses. Many psychologists say that it is marriage without cohabitation that is the ideal formula for love for a lifetime, as a man and a woman do not have time to get saturated with each other, so there is no feeling of fatigue from the relationship.

Mainly guest marriages are developed in European countries, and in our region they are still perceived with some condemnation of the society, therefore their development slows down considerably. Secrets of a happy marriage can easily be expressed in the pros of separate living. One of the main positive aspects is that a common life can not destroy the romance of relations. Every woman wants to remain interesting to her man, to preserve some mystery, charm. When the husband comes only on a visit, his wife has a unique opportunity to always be on top and surprise his partner with different images.

Guest marriages allow you to avoid a lot of quarrels and mutual reproaches, since each person's private space is not restricted in any way and is not infringed. A woman can calmly engage in her appearance and create a comfort that no one will break. A man in this case does not worry about scattered socks and if desired he can spend the whole evening in front of the TV, watching football and not being afraid of his wife's indignation.

Initially, spouses practiced international marriages from a distance. Marriage with a foreigner means that a woman will have to move to a foreign country for her, learn a foreign language, and engage in complete replacement of documents. As a rule, both spouses are not ready to give up their way of life, but at the same time they want to be together. Then by itself comes the decision to visit each other from time to time, by visits.

But it should be understood that, as if both spouses did not try to maintain their own independence and acuity of sensations, the main purpose of each woman is to prolong the gender. Therefore, after the birth of a child, life changes radically, because for its development, the presence of both parents is always necessary. It is at this time that the guest marriage should grow into a traditional coexistence.

In order for the guest marriage to maintain a romantic relationship and eternal love, the desire of both men and women is necessary. Only mutual intention to build their relationship in a certain way will be for good.