9 facts about divorce, which are worth knowing for each wedding couple planning

In many countries of the world, divorce statistics are constantly growing. So, for example, in Russia about half of marriages will fall apart. Even if the newlyweds are sworn to be with each other, "until death does not separate them," there is a 50 percent chance that they will violate it. Having studied the statistics of divorces in detail, the sociologists came to some curious conclusions. What to do to avoid being on the "dark side"?

To marry closer to 30 years

The newlyweds making an informed choice, there is more chance to build a strong family. According to statistics, the least amount of divorce is registered if people are married closer to their thirtieth birthday. If the newlyweds do not turn twenty, then they stand first in line for a potential break. Psychologists explain it this way: a strong desire to get married or marry can not be a guarantee of a healthy relationship. One desire, passion or love is clearly not enough. On the other hand, if the couple is more than 32 years old, there is a danger that the couple will run away because of acute rejection of the partner's established habits.

Do not take a joint holiday as a solution to problems

Analyzing outbursts of activity of those wishing to divorce, the experts established another curious pattern. It turns out that people often feel the urge to break with relationships when they return from vacation. If the spouses have any problems in the relationship, they dream of a shared rest, believing that they can strengthen the relationship. However, quarrels and quarrels do not disappear anywhere, even in the romantic conditions of the southern coasts. This is a great disappointment. That's why, after returning home from leisure, one of the partners will be ready to apply for a divorce.

Husbands should be busy with work

If the spouse sits at home or is interrupted by accidental earnings, he is dissatisfied with his status in the family. This painfully hits the self-esteem of a man who is sure that he should be the chief earner. According to statistics, a spouse who does not work full time, the probability of divorce next year is higher in comparison with those who work at least 40 hours a week. It is interesting that female employment does not greatly affect the percentage of partings. This is due to the fact that women are accustomed to perceive themselves as guardians of the hearth and do not hesitate to tell others that they are at home. It turns out that the stereotypes that have developed in our distant ancestors live in people's minds to this day.

Do not change the spouse

In fact, women who had several sexual partners before marriage do not continue their "adventures" in marriage. This is a myth invented by people who do not want to put up with the fact that girls no longer keep their virginity before the wedding. Representatives of the beautiful half of humanity can easily settle down, choosing a worthy companion. Most often guided by the saying "from the good of good are not looking."

However, this does not work towards women who, due to some physiological or psychological characteristics, can not find satisfaction in a stable relationship with one partner. The statistics says the following: if a married woman changes her husband, she is more likely to divorce. If we talk about the persons who married virgins, they often fall into the trap of their own curiosity. Too much desire to compare in sexual terms a spouse with another man.

Mature couples break up less often

When all critical periods of marriage are over, it's easier to put up with the habits of an expensive person, it's easier to turn a blind eye to its shortcomings and it's easier to forgive. Mature people have acquired an invaluable life experience. When there were diapers left in the past, domestic squabbling and grinding with new relatives, people are much more likely to keep the marriage until old age. Psychologists consider the starting point of the so-called crisis of seven years of relations. If by this time the couple creates only the appearance of the family and lives for the sake of the children, it has no future. If the spouses manage to cross this ruby painlessly, they are no longer afraid of any adversity.

Marry and marry peers

Another study showed that the probability of divorce increases in direct proportion to the difference in age between spouses. Each year, separating the age of partners from each other, increases the chances of a divorce by three percent. A ten-year age difference increases the chances of parting by almost 40 percent. It seems that everything is logical here. They are molded from one dough. They often share life views and principles, share the same interests.

Do not make a grand celebration

As practice shows, the richer and more pompous the wedding celebration, the more likely the rupture of relations. Therefore, do not seek to spend on your banquet your annual budget, do not seek to surprise the audience with something, or to defeat the former rival on the spot. It is better to spend this money on a romantic honeymoon or put them aside. According to sociologists, excessive extravagance shows that the spouses, most likely, will not be able to properly manage finances. And on this basis they will have disagreements. But a large number of invited guests, on the contrary, potentially indicates the strength of the relationship.

Divorce affects the health of the heart

Recent studies show that women who survive a divorce are more likely to suffer from heart attacks. This information will be important for men caring for the health of their second half. For women who survive the divorce process two or more times, the risk of developing cardiovascular diseases increases by 77 percent.

Children will not thank you for sacrifice

Many couples live in a real hell, maintaining the semblance of relationships only for the sake of children. In fact, this victim does not justify himself. When a son or daughter grows up, they will not thank their parents, but the marriage will still fall apart. Remember that your marriage model is projected onto your children. If you are deeply unhappy, they are more likely to take a "baton from you".