Who are the hater ("hater")?

In the lyrics of rap artists very often you can find the word "hater" ("hater"). What are they so remarkable, if they are mentioned in almost every song of the rapper? Who are the hayters? Who can you call that and who does not? Let's try to understand this very interesting question.

If translated from English, the heyter is a person who hates someone for some reason. The reason for hatred in this case is someone else's success, recognition, popularity and money. For many rappers, all this symbolizes success. That is, some performers have a recognition of listeners, and those who did not achieve what they aspired to perceive someone else's success as their own defeat. Here, in general, is the simplest explanation of who are the hayters.

What does a heather do?

Basically, such people are engaged in that expresses their opinion about who is more successful than him. As a rule, he does not speak openly about his hatred, he does not have the courage to do this. It is registered on a thematic forum or in a chat room, under some terrible name (for example, "BLOOD FONTANOM") and begin to criticize everyone and everything. At the same time, his remarks are often groundless.

The reason for this behavior is youthful maximalism. After all, who are the hayters? These are the ones who say that this performer (track, style, musical direction, anything, anything) sucks, but this is a really worthwhile thing. And it makes no sense to argue with him, in this case, no arguments will help. For a heyter, only his opinion is correct and only his words are true. Belief in his own rightness and misunderstanding that there can be other opinions - these are the main components of the most ordinary heyter. Over time, many people stop saying something like "I'm a heather." It becomes not so important who is cool, and who is not. But there are people who retain their youthful maximalism at the age of 30.

Some people have a unique ability to contain so much anger, hatred and envy. They can be both serious rivals, and simply primitive personalities. In any case, you need to learn to recognize the hayters.

How to deal with such people?

In principle, it is clear who such heiters, but how to behave with such envious persons and haters? The perfect disregard for their secret attacks will be complete disregard. Even if you are strangled by anger, be in touch with the heyter are courteous and calm. Do not go on personalities, communicate with him briefly and on business. After all, most often, by their behavior, they try to hide the uncertainty in their abilities and fear (to be misunderstood and unaccepted by the public). The worst kind of heyter is a person who does not show his true attitude. In communication with you they are extremely friendly and nice, and behind you the first will start you (your creativity, style, etc.) to discuss.

They were and will always be. We must learn to distinguish between criticism and envy. Well-grounded observations make us develop and become better. And the envious people who are discussing you behind your back should not pay attention. It does not matter whether you listen to rap, write it (or do something else) - learn to understand where the criticism is, and where - the heit.