Wedding, Traditions

"Oh, this wedding wedding wedding sang and danced ..." a lot of songs are sung, and even more words are said about the wedding.

A wedding is a holiday of love, purity, loyalty and devotion. Why faithfulness and devotion, but because at the wedding young people swear to love each other and be betrayed to each other for the rest of their days and only death can separate the young. 90% of the women (women) on earth are waiting for their beloved people to offer them a hand and a heart, and like we have been dreaming about this since childhood and are expecting more and more every day, and when that touching moment comes, every second girl The hands are shaking and the heart beats harder, and finally you say to your only "Yes !!!" And as if the whole world is at your feet. Preparations begin for the Wedding. According to the ancient Russian belief and tradition, before every wedding there is a custom of "Matchmaking" . Sobovstvo is the ringing of a girl, that is, a young man attends his young golden ring on his finger, as a token of his love, and since then the girl is considered pozvatonoy. In Russia, not married girls wore red ribbons in their braids, as a sign that they were free and women chose girls for themselves on red ribbons, and the girls with red ribbon woven with zavatannyh girls were weaved with a blue ribbon, which the groom was weaving with his bride. Until now, many customs and traditions of Rus have become irrelevant and lost their values. And finally, matchmaking has been held and preparation for the wedding begins . Brides choose their dresses and veil, shoes (by the way, the bride can not buy shoes or sandals with an open nose or a heel, since her entire life will be poor and naked), various small ibbutts (you need to buy pins with a red eye, At each wedding there are people who are watching, but not all the time, but they are still eyeing), and the bridegrooms are wearing wedding suits, ties and shoes (the groom also needs to put a handkerchief with a cross-shaped pin of pins against the evil eye). The choice of wedding rings recently the groom and the bride choose together, although in the old days the only one who was in charge of the choice of rings was the groom, and the bride could not be seen before the wedding. According to the beliefs, the rings should be only gold, other metals bring only misfortunes, the ring of the bride must have stones (no larger size, the larger the stone on the wedding ring, the more jealousy and evil eye), the groom should be smooth, without stones and drawings So that family life was smooth). Wedding rings can not be shown to anyone before the wedding - this is a bad omen. Well, the rings have been chosen, the wedding dress and the suit for the groom have got, it remains only what? Well of course the hen party and bachelor party. A hen party is the last meeting of a bride with her friends before a married life. The stag party is the last meeting of the groom with his friends. Lately, the bride and groom celebrate the bachelorette party all the time, not thinking about how they will look and feel the next day, because this will be the day of their long-awaited wedding. In the olden days a hen party was held in the bride's house, the girls sang songs and most importantly weave the bride's plait, escaping the red ribbons from the braid, plaiting the white and blue ribbons in the braid. The hen party and the bachelor party ended and the morning of the wedding day came. The very first tradition of the wedding is the ransom of the bride groom. The groom or his friends is falling, money and sweets. Matchmakers set different barriers for the groom, before he sees his bride and the groom must pass them adequately. In the old days there was a custom of issuing a bride to the groom in the following actions, the groom should throw a coin on the tray by the matchmaker; if the matchmakers are not satisfied with the ransom, they would take out the old woman dressed in a wedding dress before the grooms, the groom open the veil of the bride's face and see before himself not his bride, refusing the old woman groom on the tray still throwing coins if the matchmakers were pleased ransom conclusions to groom his bride, the groom had to open the veil of the bride's face to uvidomitsya he took him nevestu.Litso bride was closed veil until brakosochetan I am young - this should be so that the black eyes do not see the face of a pure and unblemished bride, only the groom after ringing his bride could open the veil, because she already became his wife, and only at that moment all guests and parents could see the beautiful bride Or a new wife. This custom has survived to this day, many of today's brides are covering their face with a veil before the wedding. Recently, it became urgent to release pigeons into the sky, because blue is a bird embodying the family, love and loyalty. In many regions of our country there is one more custom of crossing the bridge of a new family. The groom takes his bride in his arms and crosses the bridge from beginning to end-it symbolizes that he promises his wife to carry her all life on his hands, in the middle of the bridge the bridegroom stops putting the bride to the ground and together they take the castle (previously prepared with the names of the young ones) , Attach it to the bridge, close it with a key, and the key is thrown into the river, it's an old custom that has survived to this day. Then, at each wedding, a banquet or a feast started, on which gifts are given and young people are congratulated, dances and competitions. Each Weddings is single, because every person tries to make it like everyone else. Everyone makes a part of himself in his wedding. I wish that each of you felt the feelings of joy, love, wedding hassles on yourself.