Useful wisdom for a modern young mother

The twenty-first century is the time of information, sometimes it is so much that you want to cry and forget, you do not know what to believe.

And what to do with all this young mother, who just picked up a little man? What is the most important, and what should not you forget about your mother caring for the baby?

The most important thing in this situation is to remain calm! Enjoy the minutes spent with the baby. After all, these moments do not recur. That's why let yourself relax and enjoy motherhood.

With the advent of the child, the habitual way of life changes cardinally. At first the girl lived one life, and now the young mother starts another bright full of impressions life. And the first wisdom is this: "Count only on your own strengths." And be prepared for the fact that not every your best friend or girlfriend will leave his business and run to your aid. Not everyone is ready to change the usual comfort zone and to abandon their business to harm themselves. Therefore, determine for yourself what you can do with the child yourself, and which ones should be shifted to the husband, relatives and friends. Maybe at first they will not be happy, but the kid will change their opinion and attitude to the whole world.

Wisdom the second: "Always remember that you are a woman who is a mother, a wife, a mistress, a mistress, a daughter, and a friend ..." Do not be a scrap horse! And if you have missed this moment, take care of yourself. Only you can understand yourself, support and motivate yourself.

From this follows the third wisdom: "Always develop, improve." Thanks to the information age of technology, development is becoming a pleasant game. And most importantly, it's all free. Do not need a lot of money, everything is on the Internet or books. Excellent master classes in knitting, embroidery, sewing, scrapbooking, fitness, yoga and much more.

Social networks and search engines are just waiting for you to type the text you want. And all this can be done without leaving home. Your baby is always there, happy that his mother is also close. And if you have a free minute and you like to read, visit the local library, now the employees are trying to replenish the bookshelves with the latest innovations. Perhaps you can find something useful for the baby and yourself. For example, surprise with exquisite culinary masterpieces from the cookbook, which was taken in the library.

Fourth wisdom: "Stop blaming yourself for everything". The baby cries, you did not have the strength to approach, and you blame yourself for that? Dirty linen has been lying around for several days, and I do not want to wash dishes at all? Let it go. Allow yourself to be not perfect, but a simple weak woman who wants to be herself. If everyday life overcomes you, find the strength and try to move forward in time with the music, sing your favorite song, let it not be a lullaby, and in the evening it will be useful and pleasant to take a warm bath with aromatic candles.

And the fifth advice is to watch your figure. Daily exercise, this will give more confidence, you can restore the elasticity of your body to the ambassador of birth, become more enduring. A small child requires a lot of attention, it's a motor that never gets tired. That's why, you have to become a powerful generator that will supply and fill with your energy all your loved ones

And the last wisdom, listen to your heart. Do not go against your own desires, sacrifice yourself, then wait for someone to appreciate your efforts. Remember: "Nobody will appreciate." Everyone is too busy with themselves. Therefore, give time to yourself. Happy are you, your loved ones are happy.