The clash of interests, because of which a dispute arises, is not fatal!

Conflict is always unpleasant, and even after a settled dispute there is an unpleasant residue on the soul, which then can only be washed away with great difficulty, so I would not want to allow such clashes. However, alas, we can not do without conflict situations, but sometimes to prevent a quarrel, we need to know the main causes of conflicts and not step on the same rake.

The reasons that after the time will seem ridiculous

Conflicts in pairs have been and will be, and the blame for this is a clash of interests, because of which a dispute arises. For example, one partner wants a plaid in the bedroom to be checkered, because it's cosiness, classics, beauty, and the other thinks that the optimal option will be a one-color one, since it will suit almost everything. It is important to remember that a person is able to get used to much, is it possible that some kind of rug can cause discord?

"Do not get along with the characters" - this is the main excuse for couples in which the clash of interests, because of which a dispute arises, has passed to the very last stage - hatred and dislike. Yes, this is actually possible. Different people, different views, different lives, but this is not the reason for parting or arguing!

Another urgent problem is the reluctance to help around the house. Very often men simply forget that a woman for a whole day needs to do as many things as he does in a week, so on a weekend peacefully lie on the couch, and women are busy on the housework. This problem may seem ridiculous, if you look at it from the other side: Is it really so difficult to vacuum and wash the dishes, saving yourself and your mate from unnecessary abuse?

Serious problems

• Drunkenness. That's what it is really difficult to put up with and it's almost impossible to get used to, but in fact, no matter how much you swear, a person still does not quit drinking until he wants to.
• Infidelity. This is another reason for frequent "deadly" quarrels, but why should you then be in a relationship if you have someone else on the side? However, sometimes half is inventing treason from scratch, which is what causes the conflict. This, by the way, is another "slippery" issue - excessive and insane jealousy.

The clash of interests, because of which a dispute arises, can manifest itself in different ways. For example, selfishness can also be called a clash. Only here is more and more serious and irresolvable: the egoism of one is not subject to another, the relationship in this case is in the hands of one.

These are only the most common questions about which couples are quarreling, but believe me, none of them can destroy true love. The reasons for the clash of interests, because of which a dispute arises, are different, and most often they refer to the same, ridiculous.