Love Triangle: what to do to the girl.

Even happy love is an irrational feeling. It is difficult to understand a loved one and make yourself think soberly when it comes to a love triangle. We are so arranged that in this situation the senses become aggravated and make reasonable decisions becomes more difficult at times. So, the girl got into a love triangle. What to do?

In the triangle, the girl can be in two positions. In the top or in the bases. In the first case, two guys fight for the girl's attention. In the second she competes for her beloved on the other. The first situation is very painful for a girl, although the second is usually more sympathetic.

Let's start with a situation where a girl has to choose one of two guys. This choice is always difficult, because usually these guys are very different. The most interesting thing is that the girl in this situation often loves both, but each in their own way. For example, to one, she experiences feelings similar to those of her mother, and feels something close to friendship in relation to the second. This girl can recommend ... find a third option, which will suit her more than the two available, because not for nothing that she does not let go of both of them, but she does not make a final choice. Hence, the relationship with both of her do not suit and for years the state lasts like a love triangle. What if you are still sure that you need one of the two? Outline in writing the merits and demerits of one and the other. Nowadays. And then make a similar table for the future. Lysina will only get worse, but worthy education promises the development of intelligence in the future. We, of course, are not prophetic, but we need to think about what a man will become. If at least once you are insulted seriously, hit or prone to wine drinking - better immediately disqualify. It will not be with such happiness, only the questions of "what to do." If you love someone else and are sure of it, your opponent needs to know about it. But you can not break the relationship itself. You just need to dislike the unlucky suitor. Become inattentive, uninteresting and unresponsive in communicating with him. It is necessary to find those qualities that repel him and imitate them. Will leave himself, without scandals and hysterics.

If you yourself compete for the guy, the most effective way to solve the problem will be to find a free guy who will be very nice to take care of you, so that the guy you are competing for will know about it. If your loved one breathes a sigh of relief and gives you up to a new one, it means that he did not really need you. And regret about this man is not necessary, but it is better to either stay with a beautiful carer, or look for someone else. Try to forget this love triangle. What if the guy thinks about it and starts to sort things out? Suggest barter: you give a turn to that guy from the gate, and he throws that girl. Do not join social competition for a man, you can not let guys feel like masters of the situation. From this appear in their character impudence and disdain for the girls.

And if suddenly it turned out that you are not competing with an extraneous girl, what to do if a friend betrayed you and took away a loved one? Do not take revenge, but just wish you happiness and draw conclusions for the future - strike out both of your social circle. It is better to change the situation and geography. Meet the Internet with a man from another city and look for happiness with him.

So, in your life there was a love triangle. What to do? Look for a partner outside this triangle and do not get hung up on people who are in the triangle with you. It's better to work on yourself to get a man higher than your social circle. This strategy is usually most beneficial for the girl and allows her to look at the situation as if from a height.