Who are swingers, the whole truth about them

Trying to understand who swingers are, one can not fail to note the possible causes of this phenomenon. As they say, love lives for three years, well, passion is even less. But what to do, if the passion has passed, the love has subsided, has outgrown into something sluggish?

Someone has folded his wings and slowly flows through a monotonous life, but someone does not like this situation at all. It seems that the second half completely satisfies as a friend, and the children grow up, and everything is like people, but some drive in life, some kind of movement, or something, disappeared. Some lead a monotonous lifestyle, others lead lovers. And some part decides to plunge into the swing, which supposedly will save the family boat.

As always, this concept came to us late and yet, who are swingers? These are sexual partners who practice the exchange between the formed pairs.

What is he swinging?

The word "swinger" comes from a jazz "swing", i.e. Rapid jumping from one note to another, and in our case - "jumping" from one partner to another. Attitude to this phenomenon can be radically opposite for different groups of the population, but, as is known, statistics - a thing stubborn. And she reports that about 20% of married couples practiced swinging at least once, and 40% of those free from Hymen's bonds at least once dreamed of putting such a forbidden connection into their lives.

Swing is divided into several types:

• Easy swing does not imply physical betrayal between partners, but only allows for mutual caresses, satisfying the desire to somehow be with someone else;
• Soft swing allows you to have sex in proximity to each other without sharing partners;
• Closed swing allows for physical intimacy, couples exchange partners and disperse to different rooms or apartments. It is practiced by couples who would like to try physical intimacy with another, not quite familiar person;
• Open swing, this is when partners have sex all together, releasing their energy, in its meaning, this action can be called an orgy.

A bit of history

Wishing to receive an answer to the question of who such swingers are, we shall plunge into history. It is unknown for what reason that swinging originated in Czechoslovakia during the period of socialism in the middle of the last century.

But this phenomenon was most widespread in California among American hippies. No fear of AIDS or other venzabolevany will not stop people's desire for diversity in sex - it was their motto.

In the 60-70s of the last century, the concept of "Swedish family" appeared in the world and representatives of radical youth, in contrast to traditional families, arranged "love triangles". Swedish swingers are members of the "Swedish family", they are grouped, basically, in the following way: man + man + woman or man + woman + woman and have connections within the group.

Discussing the question of who swingers are, it becomes clear that the attitude to this topic is very diverse, from sharply negative to extremely positive, and to some, and absolutely indifferent to swingers.

This phenomenon in large cities is organized in swing clubs for communication and acquaintance, since the swingers' couple is not long enough, from 6 to 12 months, because the very essence of this relationship is the change of permanent partners.

Even Sigmund Freud once said that sexual deviations are not perverted sexual relations, not links of homosexuals, but a complete lack of sex.