Prince on a white horse or horses without princes?

I always expected a prince on a white horse to come. From a young age I dreamed and imagined how everything would happen. But, as life showed, I resorted only to a white horse on the prince, which I, by inexperience or despair, took for the long-awaited prized. What is the peculiarity of these "princes" and can you learn to recognize them?

In fact, everything is simple. In order to understand what it is, your prince, you need to imagine him in all the splendor of merits and demerits. Often why women make mistakes? But because they try to attribute imaginable and unthinkable dignity to their newfound noble. And as a result, disappointment. Let's look at the basic myths about horses that make our lives worse, and sometimes even more nightmarish.

Myth First

Prince on a white horse . Perfect . Myth one was always that if we liked a person at first sight, then we attribute to him all the virtues of supermen (well, or superman) without asking a single question.

Treatment : it is clear that from generation to generation people are more and more lazy and less literate, but to find out where and how the chosen one is engaged, how he spends his leisure time, what movies he watches, what books he reads and whether he reads at all, and much more. Be interested in friends and surroundings. Listen not only, but also as he speaks.

Myth of the second

Prince on a white horse . The most terrible misconception of the absolute majority of all girls, and even the guys (although they are much less): "I can fix it / her!" Yes you can not. If a person is young, then he operates on the fact that "I want to act according to my understanding," and if an older person - "I'm already an adult (mya), my life has settled and become familiar, I can not remake." I do not argue, there are exceptions, but they only confirm the rule.

Treatment : if your person did not immediately understand that you need to change something in your life, then try to chew the text in syllables. Hear the answer to the above arguments or a shorter "went (a) ...", it is better to go. Then it will only get worse.

Myth Three

Prince on a white horse . Now a very distorted idea of love is very common, when they beat (although, as a rule, the one who beats thinks that he just slapped a little, or does not remember such a trifle), grabbed by the throat, planted on the sill of the fifth floor to scare. When you read this from the side, I think: "With myself, I obviously will not allow such a thing." Sasha / Pashka / Dimka just once broke and slapped him, but he also EXERCISED! " Dear ladies, and gentlemen too! Such people are apologized for once to spit. They fall to their knees, burst into tears, beat their powerful chest with an equally powerful fist and swear that this will not happen again.

Treatment : hit once - hit two. This is reality. If you believe that every time will be the last, then remember the statistics on domestic murders. And even if it does not come to that, it's not a fact that you will live as before. The longer parting - the more jerky you will be in the future. Believe me, I passed this. Seven years already, as parted, and I still jerk, if I see a man similar to him, and if I see him on the other end of the street - and at all the heart shrinks with fear. And as a virtuoso I shy away from gesticulating people! Jackie Chan nervously smokes around the corner.

Myth Four

Prince on a white horse . Dependent . This is one of the most terrible and hopeless options. How many women lead their faithful in shamans, narcologists, leaders and psychiatrists. For years they drive. My mother was like that. My father would come and get drunk on the day of the encoding to prove that he does not care. And then I turned my neck. Well, the white fever more and more often went to the guests with devils. In a word, hell for a wife, hell for children, hell for a husband. But there are times when it is more terrible when other types of princes are layered on it.

Treatment : if a person does not want to change himself, then you will not change it. Because only a divorce and a maiden name. Well, or hammer on all and together already sentence "green snake".

Myth Five

Prince on a white horse Momin . We've heard it one day, about a hundred times a day: "And my mother does it differently," "And my mother said," "We always go on vacation together with my mother," etc. I do not argue, I am the mother myself, and I want to So that when the son grows older, he listens to me. But if he says so, he'll get the first slap on me and get it. But for the sake of justice, I will pre-issue the interrogation with the predilection of the future potential daughter-in-law. A sort of test for lice.

Treatment : there are two ways out: either with foam at the mouth to prove your point of view in front of your prince and his mother, or try to "bend over" and win the future mother-in-law. No - it means that you have to head forward with a high head for the new prince.

Myth Sixth

Prince on a white horse Self-affirming . This type of prince is familiar to me in the same way as Bitter, since they usually walk in pairs. The humiliation of the second half in the style: "Yes, here I am, and you - nothing" - from the opera of painful self-affirmation. Another thing, if you made a fair observation that you somewhere salted or put on a blouse, not noticing a speck. At one friend the groom is just self-assertive. And she has been with him for more than ten years ... meets. He does not invite her to marry, does not satisfy her in bed, and simply does not put anything at all, but she pours mud on her cheeks even in the middle of the street. And she does not go away. At first I thought that I was suffering. It turned out to be much more prosaic: a beautiful, sexy, wealthy girl thinks that if she parted with a guy, it will forever be left alone. And because of him refused to pay well-paid work and offers hands and hearts to more worthy young people.

Treatment : run until it's too late. Lose faith in yourself - lose everything. You will be restored afterwards for years.

At the end of the story

We examined the most common types of princes, and I, as far as possible, gave examples to make it clearer. In the future, so that you do not get upset, I will tell you that these are not princes, but horses that rushed first. There are other types who like to regret themselves, others blame, manipulate people, or at all Othello. I think that many readers, and even readers, can give such examples. After all, I was obsessively waiting for the prince on a white horse, but I was so wrong. And no, even though the horse got caught! So no, "as one, all on selection and with them uncle Chernomor." But, as practice shows my friends, making a wish, release it and forget it. And it will come to you when you do not expect it!