Parenting the child in the family: secrets and subtleties

Raising a child in the family is the most important work of adults. Good moms and dads are not born, they become. But everything is not as simple as it seems at first glance.

Formation of personality from a small age

From the very beginning the child grows, develops and accepts the model of behavior of his parents. A good or bad example of our child perceives as a positive experience and tries to match the image of his family. Sometimes everything happens the other way around. The child analyzes the situation and his position, and then decides not to look like a father or mother. For example, if parents smoke or abuse alcohol, not to mention drugs. Grandmothers, grandfathers, sisters, brothers are also a supportive environment in which the upbringing of the child in the family is realized.

Good fairy tales, intimate conversations with the baby, interesting and exciting stories, where the protagonists are the household members themselves, favorably influence his inner world, help him perceive the environment, develop fantasy. In addition, you can draw together, read books, and even write fairy tales. This will help to rally the family, the child will feel necessary and important part of it.

How to cope with a problem child?

Raising a child in the family is not just a holiday. As in war, one must be prepared for everything. After all, a child, though small, but a man with his own shortcomings, often complex and bad mood. It is important to consider these factors. The main weapon is Love. You need to give her a lot, but in return you will get her even more. Raising your child is hard, and someone else's - even more difficult. Therefore, the upbringing of children in a foster family is a responsible task. Not everyone can cope with it.

Education of a child in the family consists of several aspects:

· Attention;

Labor;

· Communication;

· Praise.

Dear Mom and Dad, do not forget to take into account these peculiarities of the child's upbringing in the family. In doing so, you must act together, working out a common line of behavior. After all, your child feels and understands everything. And in the worst case, the child will stop listening to parents, will feel their slack.

Also, be sure to determine to which type of temperament your child belongs. After all, some children are very mobile, funny and inquisitive (sanguine type). Others are touchy and crying (melancholic type), angry, screaming, nervous (choleric type) or sluggish in their actions and thoughts (phlegmatic type). You have to be very careful not to hurt your baby.

Useful occupational therapy

Work educates. This has already been verified and rechecked. The child, having collected his toys himself, will no longer be scattering them all over the room the next time. In addition, he develops responsibility for his actions. It is also recommended to pay attention to the child. It should not be very much, because it interferes with the development of independence, but its lack causes the child to feel inferiority, loneliness.

Communicating with the child, parents open their hearts to him, and using in their upbringing praise, support their blood, develop in it and love for creativity, and diligence and confidence.

All problems start from childhood. Remember this!