Parent meeting in kindergarten is an important step towards understanding the child

Often parents ignore such an important event as a parent meeting in a kindergarten. They believe that they know their child better than others, their problems and needs. The second reason is that most parents are late at work, so there is not much time left to do household chores, and attending a parent meeting can upset all plans for the evening. In addition, many parents think that since the child is still small, he can not yet have serious problems with behavior and communication with peers, and censures by educators and other parents are the result of an unfair treatment of the baby. Communicating with the parents of other children is not seen by many as optional, and parents often shift the responsibility for carrying out various activities in kindergarten to educators and nannies.

Such an irresponsible approach to the issue of attending parental meetings may present serious problems in the future. The thing is that the relationship between parents and children, as well as the process of upbringing, must be built on the understanding of the child, his most important needs and desires. At the same time, it is very important to notice the problems that arise in time to be able to correct the situation, before it is too late. After all, it is in the preschool period that the main features of the personality and character of a person, its positive and negative qualities are formed, and certain complexes are formed, which in the future are very difficult to get rid of.

Why is the parents' meeting in the kindergarten an important event in the life of the parents and the child? Firstly, no matter how caring and attentive the parents of the child attending kindergarten, they still do not see their baby for almost the whole day and can not control what is happening to him. Often, when a child has a problem, he does not hurry to tell his parents about it. The reasons can be different: fear, shame, shyness, etc. At the same time, parents continue to think that everything is fine, while the problem is gradually developing, and there may come a time when it will be very difficult to solve it.

In the event that the parents visit the parents' meeting in the kindergarten on time, they will be able to find out about what is happening to their child from those who spend their day time with him, ie. From educators. And parents of other children will be able to tell how their own children are in contact with the child, whether there are any problems with communication.

It also happens that the relationship between parents and children is seen by the parties in different ways. For example, the mother believes that corporal punishment is a good way to disaccustom a toddler, but she often does not notice that it is too strict. This can lead to the fact that in the kindergarten the child will tell the teachers and other children what he is afraid to say to his mother or, for example, he becomes afraid that the teachers will start to beat him if he does something wrong. The kid can speak to the teacher in confidence that she does not want to go home, she is afraid that his mother will punish him. All this leads to the fact that the child becomes secretive, can lead a "double life", a lot of lies. Only by visiting the parents' meeting in the kindergarten and hearing the opinion of the teachers, talking to the other parents, the strict mother will be able to understand that she has chosen the wrong way of education and prevent the further development of her child's qualities such as secrecy, resourcefulness, insincerity, etc.

There are also examples where the relationship between parents and children is too frivolous, i.e. Parents allow themselves too much in the presence of the child. In such a situation, a child can, for example, swear in the presence of educators and other children or be naked in public, because his own parents often walk around the house naked. Perhaps, having learned at the parents' meeting about the behavior of their baby, they will reconsider their own behavior and understand that parents are the main example for a child.

Parents should always participate in the lives of their children, especially when the children are still young. Awareness is the most important tool in preventing arising problems, and sincere interest is the key to mutual understanding.