I'm lonely what to do:

Sites filled with contextual advertising techniques quickly get married. The cost of such online courses is usually quite palpable for a purse. Relevant literature is printed and sold out in huge editions. Books are not so expensive, but the content of books is usually exhausted by commonplace advice that you need to lose weight and expand the circle of communication. At best, readers will at least recommend working with self-esteem. And what will really help? Reconsider their views and attitudes.

"I'm alone. What should I do? "- this question makes me desperate. In the courtyard of the 21st century, in our time the position of a woman can no longer depend on the position of her husband. A woman can live as she likes and not give anybody any account of it, but almost everyone who does not find a partner feels unwanted and unrealized.

There are objective factors that interfere with successful marriage, but are subjective. Paradoxically, objective factors are easier to change for oneself. I will explain. The objective factor is the shortage of men who are fit for marriage. You already want to ask "What if I am lonely because of unfair statistics?". The answer is simple - to look not only in your own country. Do not you think you can compete? And here the subjective factors are already important. Ability to communicate, the ability to love and care, the willingness to change and the desire to fall in love.

The fact is that no matter how much they talk about the cost of one or another person in the marriage market, relations are always a process subject to accidents. We are not on the exchange, where the exact quotes are constantly changing and the participants are always oriented to the benefit. People tend to have prejudices and stereotypes of reality that can be used. For example, "the Russians are beautiful and caring." Use, and it does not matter that in your case, both are controversial. They do not like what they like to make their first impression. It's enough just to attract the attention of an interesting man, to communicate deeply and meaningfully, and if you managed to evoke feelings in him, he will no longer compare. And your price in the marriage market will already be in the background.

But the ability, more precisely, the inability to communicate - the reason for loneliness number 1 for most single women. "Because of being uncommunicative, I'm alone, what should I do?" We need to learn how to make new acquaintances. To train is better not on men, but on women. People of the opposite sex are not aliens at all, both men and women can be of the same type and give similar reactions in similar situations regardless of gender. Therefore, try to find among the women the psychotype with which you are the easiest, and then, having made friends with at least five representatives of this psychotype, look for this man. To that girlfriends are often introduced to free men in a sincere desire to help. So you will solve two problems at once.

The ability to love develops in the family, if you have not seen good examples of love, it will be difficult for you. "Because of the inability to love, I'm lonely, what to do." One must learn to give care and love to strangers. Become a patronage mother in the orphanage, join an organization that helps the homeless, make friends with mentally ill people who need support. This will not only allow you to take a fresh look at the world, but will also prepare you for future relations.

Flexibility is needed not only if you want to marry a foreigner. In any marriage, it is necessary to change habits. There is one interesting exercise that helps to change more easily. It is necessary to do simply 2 hours a day the usual actions not with your working hand, that is right-handed - left, and vice versa. The advice is simple, but it helps.

What should I do if I am left alone after my partner's divorce or death? Give yourself time to heal the wounds and not force yourself to look for someone just because everyone is talking about the need to be married. Without the desire to fall in love, nothing will come of it. Very many people do not need to get married at all due to natural features.

And where to find the groom? The easiest way is on the Internet. Of course, have to touch and chat with many men, but the best way has not yet been created. And then you will not have to suffer the question "I'm lonely, what should I do?".