How to show yourself

Always present yourself in the best possible light. Each girl has moments when it is possible and necessary to boast of other advantages: "Many tell me that I have very beautiful eyes" or "I graduated from school with a gold medal." If you want men to believe that you are really smart and beautiful, you need to prove yourself, thereby confirming that you are sure of it.

If a man decides to make a compliment to you, thank him, repeating it again for reinforcement. For example, a man said that you are beautiful, answer him: "I am very pleased that you find me beautiful." Once a positive idea relating to you comes to him, keep attacking him with fresh ideas. Let him know that you are a real diamond!

Try to demonstrate all your best personal qualities, tell yourself about yourself as much as possible positive, but never lie and do not exaggerate your merits. Such statements are not only useless, but in the future they can even play against you.

What can you tell us about your own shortcomings?

Do you have any significant or minor physical flaw? If this is so, then perhaps some of the men with whom you were in a relationship avoided this topic so as not to offend you. Others, on the contrary, pointed to your "defect", and you asked them not to do it any more. But if your defect is 10 kilograms of excess weight, a wart on your face or limp, you can not get away from it, even if you do not talk about it. On the contrary, pretending that this flaw is not present, you will only be separated from each other.

At the same time, there is no need to rush to extremes from extremes and fixate on their shortcomings. It will be a very big mistake if instead of showing yourself from the best side, you will focus on a flat chest, big nose, crooked teeth or bad skin.

I want to prove myself in a favorable light, or how to avoid mistakes

A man is looking for an alliance with a girl with whom he will forget about his problems. He wants to see in his woman a mistress and girlfriend who will not clog his head with his shortcomings, fears and fears. So if you overload him with unwanted information about yourself, trying to show yourself and like him, then this will necessarily lead to a break in relations.

Some women are accustomed to show their physical and psychological defects without hindrance - for example, myopia, allergies, poor health or lethargy, presenting them as dignities. But even if a man loves fragile young ladies (although in most cases this is not so), he will not accept soreness for good personal quality.

Among other things, a man can use your words later against you. If a woman claims to be ignorant, stupid and ugly, then probably her man will believe her, even if it's a lie. Try to show yourself honestly, necessarily demonstrating the positive aspects of character and appearance.

If your relationship is serious, and the case is moving toward the wedding, you and your companion should discuss such aspects of life as financial obligations, sexual needs and relationships with relatives who will come and stay with you. But do not rush things and wait for your relationship to reach a serious stage before talking on such topics.