How to make an offer to a girl

So, you decided. You know for sure that it is with her that you want to be together in joy and in sorrow, in health and in illness, and further in the text read out as usual in the registry offices. She is your choice, she is your goal, she is your meaning in life. But you do not know how to tell her about it, you're afraid to hear the words of refusal and generally do not know how to make an offer to a girl. This text is for you.

First, get rid of fear. If you meet for more or less a long period, spend a lot of time together, discuss different topics and understand each other well, then you already have a feeling. You are not indifferent to her, just as she is to you. And yet, in order not to put her in an embarrassing position and not to be deceived in the expectation, first, after all, find out how she treats the institution of marriage in principle. Under a convenient pretext, start a conversation about family life, about children. If you do not want to open your cards before time, do it in a casual discussion of the life of your parents or her, some friends, friends. This will help to understand whether it is worth to force events or better to wait.

Now about the very offer of the hand and heart. You know, there are a lot of tips on this, but do not even hope to find a "step-by-step instruction" on how to properly make an offer. This simply does not exist, because we are living people, and your lover - she is not like everyone else, she is special, otherwise why you feel so good with her. Hence, she deserves special words, addressed only to her, a special ritual, invented exclusively for her. No, of course, your words and actions will be similar to the words and actions of thousands of same lovers around the world, and yet they will not be a template.

The rules are only in relation to how not to make an offer. First of all, it is strictly not recommended to admit to love, being drunk, even if it is only "five drops for courage". The recognition made on the move and in a hurry, too, will be poorly received. The bedding version, although it seems appropriate, is not really that at all - the sentence may sound like gratitude for sex or as a reckless impulse at the moment when a person can forget about everything. And still - you can not rely on such an important matter on the phone, e-mail, skype and so on; The proposal is made only in person, eyes in the eye.

Perhaps this is the main thing that should be avoided, and now - actually about how to make an offer to a girl. It is clear that for this there must be either a very unexpected or simply a romantic atmosphere. If both of you are not alien to the extreme, if you two are immersed in the depths of the sea or fly over the ground with a parachute, you can use it. However, if you really live so interesting and rich, then you and most of these ideas - in abundance. In another case (and we will not call it nasty) there are no better proven options - a restaurant, or a romantic homemade dinner, or a walk along the embankment. Do you think this is trite and beaten? Believe me, there are things that never depreciate. Yes, in this version there is no special originality, but it's classic! For centuries, young people puzzled over how to make a proposal to a girl, and did not invent anything new, and went to a restaurant, and they "rolled". And you "ride", do not hesitate.

The very fact of dinner in the restaurant, perhaps, is not enough, unless this is not the first time you go to a restaurant together, and before you did McDonald's. It is worth adding a little "exclusives", say, in advance to agree on candles, a musical number "with dedication," prepaid "a gift from the institution." If at the right time the waiter brings a velvet box with a ringlet on the tray - it will also be very comical. By the way, if you have no idea what kind of ring to make an offer, it's better to do it without him at all, because for any girl this is a very important detail - she has to walk with this ring all her life (as you count on it). Therefore, if in your view the ring should be an indispensable attribute of a declaration of love, take care of knowing its preferences in jewelry, consult its parents or best friend, specify the size (circle any of its rings on the inner contour And take the unit if this ring is not on an unnamed one, but on the index or middle finger).

As a rule, girls perfectly know what kind of labors are given to the guys "simple" words: "Marry me." And if you decided on them, then it's already worth a lot. But women still love with their ears, so the text of recognition and suggestion should be at least a little longer than the four words. What exactly to say - the heart tells you the way. It will be appropriate to mention her qualities, tell her about her feelings, and outline a couple of lines in your life together. Perhaps, it is not a bad idea to prepare and learn a speech in advance, but you do not have to stumble, and even more so to get into your pocket for a piece of paper if you forgot the text. Speak in your own words - she will understand!

Well, now you know how to make an offer to a girl. And any knowledge only becomes valuable when you use it. So, go ahead! And be happy!