Botan is not just a child

There are no such parents in the world who would not want to see their child intelligent and educated. But sometimes, putting all efforts for a qualitative result in teaching, many make the mistake of instilling in their children an excessive interest in various sciences. It would seem that it is bad if children devote all their time to learning, because they will grow and be able to achieve certain heights, thanks to their knowledge. Yes, there is nothing wrong with this if you skillfully alternate time for study, rest, hobby and so on. But if you go too far and learn, learn and learn all the time, your child can soon become a nerd among peers. If the parents do not bring discomfort, the child probably will not be at ease from the constant ridicule and quibbles of classmates and other people.

Worked - rest!

A person's life can only be full and joyful when it has balance in all spheres. This provision also applies to the educational process, because only the correct distribution of time for training will be useful and enjoyable. Undoubtedly, studying is very important for every person, because to hear in your address the words about ignorance is even worse than being called a botan. Nevertheless, many smart children react very hard to mockery, answering offenders with tears in their eyes, that nerds are also people. But how to act properly and get out of the closed circle of resentment and bullying?

There is, of course, a way out, and it can be found in any case, but how long this will take place depends entirely on the child's age. If the child is at the initial stage of training, then moms and dads should pay more attention to the rest of the child. Parents need to insist that the son or daughter spend more time with friends, maybe they go to some sections and so on, because only then will the children form the right attitude to the world.

It is much more difficult to "become one's own" in adolescence, when most of the stereotypes are already formed, because then the botan is not just a child-toothbrush, but a person who does not follow the hobbies of young people. Recognize such a unique in the ranks of expressive teenagers can be very, very difficult.

Who are you in fact?

Many children may call other well-educated peers the botanists of others, although they are not. To understand this matter, you need to know the true meaning of the word botan. Analyzing the concept of this word (and there are many of them), one can see that people who learn very much are called botanists, while they are too obsessed with this process, not noticing other interesting things around themselves.

As a rule, a botan is a person with a lackluster appearance and bad physical data. Most often this appearance is isolated by the lack of necessary knowledge in the current fashion and poor physical preparation. In the end, it turns out that such a person is not interesting to his peers and the opposite sex. Therefore, it lends itself to the oppression of stronger people, although it is a very clever person.

Boys and girls

Botan is, more often than not, a boy or a young man, although it is not easy for female cramblers too. Girls can also be called and offended, but it all happens much softer than with guys.

Since these guys are the most amenable to such ridicule, it's very often verbal bullying turn into assault. The saddest thing is that in such situations young men do not complain to anyone not to become an object of even greater bullying, so everything repeats again and again. Such a circle of circumstances is difficult to sever alone, so the help of specialists is necessary.

Staying yourself

One of the reasons for insulting botanists is not that they are too smart, but that they can not stand up for themselves in view of their poor physical shape. Otherwise, no one would dare and say a superfluous word, because he could get it. Only not always good physical preparation helps to find friends and girlfriends. The main thing in any situation is to remain yourself, you do not need to change internally to enter this or that company. After all, it is not society that chooses a person, but a man chooses a society.

Good friends and peers will treat any person kindly, if they are themselves. If they are stale and rough, it does not matter who is in front of them, a botan or someone else, because they like to do painfully weak.

Unprecedented transformation

If you change your inner world before others is never worth, then the changes external for the better will always be useful. To get rid of unnecessary ridicule in clothes and style, the nerds will be best served by stylists and hairdressers. After all, for surely behind the inconspicuous head of hair and shapeless garments is a very pretty appearance. With this approach, you can completely change the attitude of others to yourself. After all, the completely updated look of an intelligent handsome man will change the negative opinion of many to the opposite.

Stylish things, fashionable haircut, properly selected accessories - and from the botan there was not a trace left. You can not recognize such a person, after all, who is a botan? An inconspicuous cramp. And this man is quite different - chic, fashionable and very smart. That's how you can completely change and become a standard of incompatible concepts - beauty and mind.