BDSM is something special about sexual relations

For some, this abbreviation means a lot, for others it's an empty phrase. But almost any person knows: BDSM is something related to sex. Let's try to find out what these four intricate letters stand for.

Explanation of the abbreviation

BD (BD): Bondage and Discipline - bondage (binding or fixing parts of the body) and discipline.

DS (DS): Domination and Submission are two opposite mutually exclusive concepts: domination and obedience.

SM (SM): Sadism and Masochism are sadomasochism, masochism and sadism. At its core is a pleasure from pain.

In theory, this abbreviation should look like BDDSSM, but it was simplified and decided to reduce to four sonorous letters.

Features of BDSM

1. This is something where pain is not necessarily present. Your sex theater, where you can only play host and slave, is also considered BDSM.
2. This vast subject of sex is not a perversion in any way. Fans of light slaps on the pope can immediately be called members of this "subculture", what to say about the girl's grasp for her luxurious long hair. Just do not be shy about it.
3. BDSM - this is something where you can do without sexual intercourse as such, if this was not indicated in the agreement between the dominant and the submissive.
4. "Stop-word" should be for every lower partner, because people do not know how to read thoughts. You have to invent words that are original, which can not be shouted out accidentally in a fit of passion.
5. BDSM is something that does not concern violence at all, because everything happens by the goodwill of the participants, everything is discussed beforehand, and sometimes even contracts are signed.

Types of BDSM

Distribution of roles

1. Game "in the doctor." In addition to disguises in this case, it is permissible to use medical items for your taste: from the enema to the rotor expander.
2. "Brutal games." One of the partners plays a horse or a dog, but the most important thing in this game is a collar, sometimes with a leash.
3. A game of changing age. More often, the one who depicts the elder dominates, but connect the fantasy, then old age will be a symbol of weakness.

In all BDSM games it is mandatory that someone was the top, and someone performed the function of the bottom one.

Impacts on the lower

• Bastinado - blows on the feet of the partner;
• Trampling - walking on the lower bare or shod feet;
• Flagellation - flexible tools used for flogging;
• Bondage - restriction of freedom through tying;
• Suspension in immobilized condition;
• Mummification - tissue and bandages are used to wrap a person;
• To the types of impact can be attributed fear of disgust. For example, the so-called golden rain (urinating on your partner);
• Wax - the sensations from his drops on the naked body are just on the verge of pain and pleasure;
• Sharp objects - here is the fear of a person before the sight of blood. The meaning of this method is in this, and not in causing terrible pain.

BDSM dating practices around the world. In some countries there are specialized thematic clubs, in which people come to get new vivid sensations. They can also get to know their future partner. Unfortunately, in Russia such institutions exist only underground. But you can find the person you need and in various forums.

Sex BDSM is unlimited, the main thing is to renounce stereotypes and dislike, to try and get the real pleasure.