Who are fetishists? Perverts or dreamers?

A rich fantasy can work miracles not only in life, but also in loving relationships, the harmonious complement of which is sex. To make bedtime pleasures do not become boring over time, many try to diversify them in many different ways. Someone is experimenting with tying a partner to a bed, someone likes role-playing games, but someone likes extreme. However, there is a category of people for whom a certain fetish is very important in sex, that is, an object that literally drives people crazy. And it can be the most unexpected things.

Who are fetishists and why are they attracted to objects whose purpose may not even have anything to do with sexual pleasures? There is a theory that a person can become a fetishist at the time of the very first sexual excitement or intercourse in his life. This is quite an important event, and the memory of him permanently settles in the mind. For example, a teenager was first excited, inadvertently spotting a photo of a blond beauty in a leopard swimsuit in his father's magazine . Perhaps he still did not understand what prompted his nature to "rise up" - white hair, a swimsuit or a leopard print. But eventually he will understand it, he will get acquainted with either only with blondes, or with girls, who are wearing at least something leopard-colored. If it is the swimwear that excites him, then it is possible that he will ask his partner to wear this beach kit before making love to her.

Today the attitude towards fetishists is calm. I like a man to collect women's panties, and yes. However, even in the 19th century, sexual predilection for certain subjects or parts of the body was considered a perversion and even a pathology. The question of who such fetishists are and what drives them, has not been fully studied, although the beloved and respected grandfather Sigmund Freud once put forward the version that these people identify objects that excite them, with their sexual organs. Allegedly this category of citizens can not have sex with other people because of the fact that at the subconscious level it is afraid to lose their sexual organs.

Who are fetishists, are there many of them? Statistics argue that such a "deviation" is found, as a rule, among men. Lovers of sniffing, touching and other ways to be excited from different objects about 4% of the male population of the planet. Probably, it is not easy for them to find themselves a companion of life. After all, every woman can understand who such fetishists are, but not everyone can accept a person with such inclinations. What kind of lady will like that her lover is excited, let's say, when looking at slippers, and not at her? Although if a man fanates from a woman with a whip in his hand, then the partner may well play along with him, turning into an imperious mistress. Yes, yes, lovers of role-playing games - this is also a kind of fetishists. It's good or bad, everyone decides for himself. If such an enthusiasm does not contradict your beliefs, does not go beyond what is permissible and does not cause any inconvenience to anyone, then there is nothing terrible in this. If you watch women in dark alleys in order to take away their underwear for some of their own basest purposes - this is another question, and you need to solve it with the help of a doctor.