Time to sound an alarm: 11 signs that your partner is changing you

Treason is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship between two people. And, as a rule, everything happens not as in films or serials, but much simpler and trivial. However, it does not become easier from this. We offer to consider 11 signs indicating that your partner is probably changing you. If you find that at least three of them can be applied to your relationship, then, most likely, it's time to talk to your half honestly.

He protects his phone like never before

Of course, a phone, a tablet or a computer are personal things. However, when you are in a relationship, you sometimes need to use your partner's gadget. And if your guy opposes this, then this situation is suspicious. In addition, you should be alerted if the partner covers the phone when typing a text message, or turns his screen so that you can not see him.

He stops using social networks or deletes you from friends

We all sometimes need to take a break and relax from Facebook, VKontakte and other social networks. However, sometimes in order to hide their activity, people remove their halves from friends. So if your guy told you that he had deactivated his account, but one of his friends told you about the fun post that he posted recently, then it's time to discuss the situation.

He's nervous around you

Of course, this does not mean that your partner is changing you. However, in conjunction with other factors, nervous behavior can mean that he simply does not know how to proceed and how to lose weight from the shoulders.

He goes on unexpected trips

Of course, your partner may have a lot of good reasons to visit another city or even a country. However, if the need for such a trip appears quite unexpectedly and your guy can not really explain this urgency, then it is quite possible that the matter is not clean. The same applies in general to sudden changes in the usual schedule. So, perhaps, your partner began to stay late at work, meet with friends more often or spend a lot of time in the gym.

He accuses you of treason

No wonder they say that the best defense is an attack. If your partner cheats on you, then he can quite literally baffle you with accusations of your infidelity.

He is incredibly happy, but it has nothing to do with you

Does your partner literally flit around the house singing songs and sniffing flowers? Certainly, it's great when your loved one is happy. However, if he does not try to share with you his fine mood and you do not see any reason for this, then this situation should alert you.

You do not have a sex life

If your usually passionate partner does not react in any way to your attempts to move to intimacy, then there must be a good reason. However, it is worth to approach this problem delicately. Perhaps it has nothing to do with having another person in his life. So, the unwillingness to have sexual contact may be due to a violation of the hormonal background, problems with mental health, the impact of stress.

He does not compromise

If your partner behaves stubbornly and does not listen to your opinion, then this may be a sign of his infidelity. After all, all relationships, one way or another, require compromises. If one of the partners starts trying to do everything in their own way and does not react to the words of their half, then this should alert. However, it is quite possible that this is not a sign of treason. Unwillingness to compromise can also indicate that your relationship is just coming to an end, because at least one of you is not interested in them anymore.

He often changes plans

Surely you will be hurt if your partner at the last moment decides to cancel the campaign for a concert of your favorite band or a romantic dinner, which you have agreed on for a long time. Perhaps he really has a good reason for this. However, if this happens on a regular basis, then this may indicate his infidelity or simply contempt of you.

He plans a future without you

If your partner stops taking you with him to the weddings of his friends or does not invite parents to family celebrations, then this should alert you. Probably, he simply does not see his future with you. The case here can be not only in treason. So try to discuss this situation with your partner. After all, maybe he just does not know how to tell you that he wants to part.

Someone tells you about partner's unfaithfulness

If your friends or even unfamiliar people somehow hint to you that the guy is cheating on you, this can make you angry. However, if such conversations continue and, moreover, you are ready to provide proof of infidelity, then do not close your eyes to it. It is better to understand the situation as soon as possible, so as not to waste time on vain experiences.