What does a man want in sex

Not so long ago, American and European researchers conducted a survey among the male population in the course of which they learned why the representatives of the stronger sex ceased to draw to the partner and what they lacked. Perhaps someone running ahead may think that these are some sexual poses that women do not accept, oral or anal sex, and maybe even some toys for adults that they do not want to see in their bedroom. However, all this is not so, the reasons lie on the surface.

As it is not surprising, but sex for men - it's not always "perepihnutsya" and that's it. This is a purely feminine point of view, and not always true. Sex for men is a kind of expression of love for girls. They need it in order to express their feelings more strongly, to be closer, to care for and to do nicely. If some of the fairer sex cares about their guys as children: they feel sorry for them, they prepare to eat, experience, etc., thus showing concern, then men can fully do this only with the help of making love.

Representatives of the stronger sex like any woman's body, but if they see that she is embarrassed, then they, too, become uncomfortable. Quite often, when she goes to bed with a guy, she starts to think about how she looks, worries about her small breasts, she worries that the guy is disgusting, remembers that she did not epilate and seeing it, he will believe that she does not follow For themselves. All these thoughts do not allow to relax. Guys feel closed and lack of complete trust that distances. A man during sex thinks only of the pleasure of being good to her. He does not care at this moment until the female cellulite, hair removal and breast, all this sits exclusively in the female heads.

Frankness and gentleness will save the relationship

From time to time every person has moments when he does not want intimacy and this is perfectly normal. However, often the problem is that a woman's "no" to a man is so rude that it repels him far enough and there is already some kind of fear, but will she send it at all this time. The partner can be said about unwillingness to have sex, only so that it does not sound abrupt and offensive.

A lot of problems are caused by the following error. Most often all the caresses that come from men, it's actually caresses to the touch. Girls are embarrassed to say what they like more and what does not, however, because the men are not psychics. Therefore, it is necessary to talk about such things. Do not be shy and show where you need to touch, how and with what intensity, because this will only benefit a couple.

It's no secret that men are especially visuals, they like everything beautiful and sexy. Therefore, during intimate relationships, they get the strongest pleasure, even just admiring the female body. The mistake of many, especially people who have lived together for one year, is that they start making love in the dark, or the woman refuses to take off her nightgown or even prefers to do it under the blanket. For a man such sex, that sex in a spacesuit with a rubber doll . In a word, all the desire to make love disappears completely and for a long time, and sometimes forever. Therefore, women, do not deprive the opportunity of your partner to enjoy and admire you, forget about cellulite, breast size and just get pleasant emotions.

Men do not accept female victims in bed

Most men are annoyed in bed and angry at the self-sacrifice of a woman. They feel good when a friend is good, but when not. For a man there is no greater pleasure than looking at a partner, which covers a powerful orgasm. Conversely, when a girlfriend does not get what they need, they feel like rapists. You do not need to lie to a partner, that you are good in bed, if this is not the case, talk to him and you will come to the decision that will help both to sink in the waves of sexual pleasure. Do not mock at yourself and over him. As a rule, more often than not, this causes a gap, and the woman blames the man in all respects, while she herself imitated orgasms throughout all relations and told her partner how good she is. As a result, her lies turned against her.

To ensure that sex does not turn into a routine in it, you need to regularly innovate. Many sexologists advise role-playing games, special toys for adults , such as a plow, an erection ring and others. Perhaps for someone at first glance it seems vulgar, however, do not rush it all aside, just try and then decide whether you need it or not. As for the issues of sex, it is important to consult with a partner, to offer and try something to make the spark of desire not only not fade, but burned even brighter and pleased you both with bright nights of love.