Relations with a married man: how to break the impasse

Not all women agree to be number two in the life of a beloved man. However, this sometimes happens. Deficiency of men after 30 is felt strongly enough. Especially men are worthy, because a free good man at this age is very difficult to find. So we have to settle for a relationship with the unfree. Do they have a future?

Relations with a married man very rarely lead to a new marriage. This happens only if the wife will expose her husband at the door, after learning about the treason. However, such an easy outcome can not be expected if the man and the truth are worth something. Wives can live for decades with their eyes closed, even if the spouse "got caught" in the open. The second half of your married man may simply not notice treason, because the "official explanation" will force her to do something. And most women in marriage lose shape and become less interesting for new men. That is, a sensible wife will not file a branch on which she has settled comfortably. After a divorce, it is very difficult for a woman to find a new husband, especially if she has more than one child. So marriage with your beloved will not be enough.

But it's not always the relationship with a married man based on the hopes of a mistress for a wedding. It is much more honest when a lover simply receives money from someone else's husband and makes love to him regularly. No expectations - and no guarantees. At the same time the mistress becomes something like the psychotherapist to whom the spoiled husband complains of the bothered spouse. The only drawback of this approach is the limited time. Women are getting old, and eventually a loved one will find a substitute on the side. An exception is if a woman can create very comfortable conditions for a man. Then she can remain a "war girl" for many years. And when the children of the husband grow up, he can also marry a proven woman. But this happens very rarely and only with women who know how to build a very tender and trusting relationship. But such women usually do not need to be a mistress - they are dragged to the altar very quickly and at any age.

In general, it is better not to try to maintain a relationship with a married man. The psychology of subjects changing wives is such that they are not in principle ready to build a monogamous relationship. They have a very high need for novelty, which means that they will not want to have affairs with one mistress for more than a few years.

What if you still have a relationship with a married man? Try to get maximum benefits from this situation. Not in terms of money, but in terms of personal and professional development. Go study, work on appearance, change your character. If you become an elite professional, you will not need to be afraid that your married will leave you. And if you will be in possession of a stunning figure, well-groomed face and learn to communicate with men, you do not have to linger in the role of mistress. You will be invited to get married.

A good alternative to relations with a married man is the search for a husband abroad. This is quite realistic for a slender and pretty woman of any age. The husband will be 10-15 years older, but this is better than being a disenfranchised concubine of the "domestic producer". So forward - to learn foreign languages and learn communication techniques. And all will turn out, if you learn to write interesting letters and create an atmosphere of psychological comfort.

Do not remain a mistress - look for a man who is only one woman. And for a married married to strive not worth it - he's in fact a man of unreliability. In time, you will find a man who will only need you alone. Work on your body and soul - and soon you will become a happy wife. Let mistresses be short-sighted and stupid. Do you deserve better?