Platonic relations - friendship, sometimes turning into true love

There are feelings that can not be confused with any others, for example: anger, jealousy, hatred, greed, etc. What is love, and where is that facet that distinguishes it from love or ordinary passion? How not to make a mistake in choosing a partner, so that after a bad experience you should not be disappointed in life, for a long time suppressing even thoughts about a new acquaintance with a representative of the opposite sex? It's good to know the beloved platonic relations will help, to great regret, in most cases, lost their former relevance. But, as they say, everything is good in moderation ...

Teenagers who are not spoiled by the present time of permissiveness, experiencing the very first feeling of falling in love, for the most part do not pretend to the rapid development of the novel, since many of them simply do not know how to behave in this or that situation. Usually at this age there are platonic relations, and this, apparently, is true. As a rule, nothing good comes from early sexual relationships. Everything has its time. And if the first love came , then everything should go its own way. And these are cursory glances, and timid touches, from which the heart literally jumps out of the chest, and experiences-suffering. How to know what is best - when the first feeling is mutual and you can do so many stupidities or undivided, allowing you to know the pure platonic relationships. Sometimes it happens that the object of sighs and does not suspect about the feelings that have broken out in relation to themselves. To experience them is painful, sweet, painful, and pleasant, but unrequited love can save you from an early unwanted pregnancy and other ill-considered acts, when teenagers, experiencing the first strong feeling, are not able to control themselves and, as in a whirlpool with their head, immersed in Comprehended their passion.

However, it also happens when a friend or girlfriend falls in love with your chosen one already at adulthood. In the case when the friendship is real, the lover does not even give a sight, secretly experiencing an unexpectedly unexpected feeling. Platonic relations are and quite painful:

"... your wife has eyes,

And lips - mouth.

I love you very much,

But before it is pure ... ".

In this case, a person applies all the forces to eradicate his love from his heart, so as not to cause trouble to his friend / friend or his / her half, he / she tries to meet with you as rarely as possible, if not at all Go to another city.

It's better that you do not have to experience such feelings, because serious relationships are mutual understanding, respect, and healthy sexual intercourse. Families should be created for love and imply a continuation of the family. A happy family life is a harmonious spiritual and physical connection of partners, built on mutual love, caring for each other and the younger generation.

Do not forget that our children often build their lives based on the stereotyped parent relationship. That's why you should not swear in their presence. It is clear that love relationships are not always smooth, that everyone goes through a thorny path at the beginning of a life together. The period of the so-called "lapping" of characters simply needs to be experienced. When two loving people start to swear (and without this it is simply impossible to live life), first of all, it is necessary to develop in the family a peculiar etiquette of quarrels, to go beyond the bounds of which must be absolutely impermissible. Respecting one's own dignity, without humiliating one another, one can always find a compromise and with the course of lived joint years all the strife will gradually come down to "no." Here in such families, spouses who have lived for a long period of time understand each other not so much from a half-word - from a half-look, and are really happy.