How to change life for the better?

Skeptics, after reading the title of the article, may ask: "What right does someone have to advise someone, how to change life for the better?"

I think I can give some such advice, because I did it. I changed my life. In the best way.

After a long and difficult divorce, I stayed with two children. And then Perestroika broke out. And without that the hard work of educating girls soon came down to a simple problem: how to feed daughters? In those days I had no time to think how to change life for the better. We had to act. The salary was not paid for months, and for the money received, even if they were large, there was nothing to buy in the stores. But I also wanted to give education to children. During the day I worked, then worked part-time, then helped the younger to do the lessons, and the senior sew-sewed the costumes: she was engaged in a theatrical circle. Then the eldest married, a grandson was born, the time has gotten even shorter. Thoughts that it's time to change my life for the better, just did not occur to me.

And then suddenly not only children grew up, but even a grandson. I was not needed. What did I have by that time? The work with which I was reduced, a meager allowance and ... loneliness. No friends, no husband, no prospects.

Here is the question of how to change life for the better has become an edge. The choice was small: either a change, or a nervous breakdown.

I began to act, ridiculously and awkwardly, but to act.

First I went to Simoron. There is such a site. If you decide to change your destiny, start with it. There you can cheer up, find friends. And there are also interesting sections: The path to wealth, the fulfillment of desires, the usefulness and the mass of others. They are kind of frivolous, but after starting the practice of the technology of fulfilling desires, I determined for myself what I want.

Now I knew how to change life for the better. Made a list of desires, ways of implementing them. To get rid of depression meditated. Then she took herself in hand and began to look for work. I was no longer 40 years old, so finding a good place was more than difficult.

Merry Simoron had to change to sites about how to properly look for work, and how to organize your life correctly. The advice of psychologists, sociologists and employers helped me: my work is excellent. Let it be your second step: start doing what you like.

As the bad mood sometimes returned, and friends did not appear, in the evenings I often sat on the Net. At one of the forums I met a man. We did not agree with him on religion, we argued for two weeks. Then he was on a business trip in my city. We have been married for four years.

Take the third step: overcome yourself, start looking for your soul mate. Not immediately, but you will find it. And when there is a loved one and a favorite work, it remains only to find friends.

We renewed old acquaintances, found new friends by interests. Some of them came and went, leaving no trace in our lives, someone became a close friend.

Visit old friends, find new ones. After all, under a recumbent stone water does not flow.

Those who do not want to look for work, new friends, loved ones, but still wonder how to change their lives for the better I can give advice, like a psychologist (this is my first education):

• Do not be afraid to dream. Do not limit your imagination. Dream persistently, regularly. Then thoughts materialize, and dreams come true. To make this happen soon, draw up a Desire Card.
• Select the goals, arrange them in order of priority. And strive for them, despite the difficulties. Going - always reach the goal.
• Do not do what you do not like. Only by doing what you love, you will be satisfied with yourself.
• Do not cut yourself. In the evening, summing up the day, praise yourself for what was especially successful. Plan tomorrow. Doing this regularly, you will understand what you want and how to change life for the better.
• Refuse to yourself in small things, to rejoice in the big.

Good luck to you!