Divorce In Genre Thriller

As recently as last summer, a story about the divorce of the Kazan businessman Mejashkin and his wife swept the runet by a wave. The above-mentioned divorce would be one of hundreds among others, if not for two factors. The first - Mezhashkin at that time managed to become famous in Kazan, and throughout Russia frauds with counterfeit products of Akustov and one-day firms. The second - after the departure of his wife, Mejashkin transferred to it his unspent potential for aggression, which he failed to realize with his competitors. Competitors, without a long thought, filed a lawsuit, which after a lengthy trial, Mezhashkin and his accomplices inflicted conditional terms and million penalties. And the former spouse appeared to be almost defenseless before the face of her brutalized husband, and the only public salvation at that time was the publicity of the unpleasant situation.

As it was possible to find out, at the moment the situation has more or less stabilized, but here is what way? Find an ex-husband of a businessman through LiveJournal was not difficult. Irina Mejashkina refused to meet, referring to her busy schedule, commenting on the situation on the phone.

Corr: Irina, how is your relationship with your ex-husband going to be?

IM : None at all. Mejshkin has sued the meetings with the child, at present the proceedings are still pending. In another court, Mezashkin disputes the absentee decision on alimony, he does not want to pay alimony for his son. After one of the sessions of the court for meetings on my car, the numbers were torn off and the wheel was punctured. That's all communication.

Corr : Did you interfere with his meetings with the children?

IM : After Ilyshkin's statement that there exists a transcendental essence in him, I was simply afraid of him. Moreover, I was afraid of letting him in with the children.

Corr : As far as I know, you have two children?

IM: From the older daughter, Mejashkin refused, the decision of the court has already entered into force.

Corr .: He adopted her before that?

IM: It was the establishment of paternity, while Mezhashkin knew perfectly well that he was not a father, and could not appear. At the time of the establishment of paternity my daughter was four years old, and we did not meet with Meishkin before. Apparently, he wanted to reproduce his name as quickly as possible.

Corr: How can you comment on numerous articles on the topic of your divorce?

IM: I first heard about them from you. (The first conversation with my former wife Mejashkin took place on the eve, on-line, so to speak, and was very short) I read with interest, honestly, did not even think that I was practically a celebrity. (It's heard that he laughs). In general, everything is retold correctly, except for some points.

Corr: For example?

IM: I did not marry Mezhashkin for love, but for calculation, if I were honest. I understand that the drama becomes more dramatic with love, and the story itself is more colorful, but it's not so. Kashapov did not terrorize me, on the contrary, only thanks to him our marriage lasted three years, and for many moments I'm grateful to Oleg (Kashapova, ed.). Without his support, my family life would be hell. Therefore, the moment about the terror of Kashapov surprised me a little. About the mental health or ill health of the ex-husband, I did not give any conclusions and can not give, I'm not a psychiatrist. Judging by his behavior, a mental disorder exists, but this is only an assumption.

Corr .: Do you support relations with Kashapov?

IM: No, it's not. At the time of the divorce, he behaved somewhat dishonorably, but this is another story, and I do not want to discuss it.

Corr .: What can you say about the criminal activities of the ex-husband? Is it true that you knew about it from the very beginning?

IM: Yes, the truth, I knew and dissuaded. Unfortunately, my former husband did not listen to my advice.

Corr .: A Kashapov?

IM: From the very beginning, he had nothing to do with, like me. When he found out about the forgery of materials (History with the Moscow competing firm http://www.oldtimer.ru/oldtimernews/Nezakonnaja_realizacija_tovara_7.html?lng=en), it was too late to change anything. And then in the future there were many situations when Kashapov tried to dissuade Meishkin from illegal actions. Unsuccessfully, really.

Corr .: And now? If I'm not mistaken, you were not only married to Mejashkin, but also worked together?

IM: We do not work anymore, fortunately. I began the division of work immediately, when I began to receive information about the continued machinations of the ex-husband.

Corr: For example?

IM: I do not want to discuss this now. The interested persons will find in the network and not only enough information on this topic. I currently have my own job, not related to my ex-husband, my own life, it's unpleasant and embarrassing for me to remember that I was associated with Mezhashkin. Moreover, I do not want to complicate my life, making public any facts that in fact have not been a secret for a long time.

Corr: Your family life, if you can call it that, ended, it can be said, relatively peaceful. What can you recommend to women facing similar situations? Is there any point in contacting the police? And where to address at all?

IM: First of all, do not be silent. Domestic violence is not necessarily "rape" in the literal sense of the word, or physical violence. As a rule, domestic rapists seem to be intelligent people, about whom you will never think anything of the kind, and everything begins with "harmless" humiliations. Talking about this is not a shame, but it is necessary, because impunity provokes the aggressors to take further action, and everything can end very badly. In Kazan there is a support center for victims of domestic violence "Fatima", helpline 246 44 01, All-Russian hotline for countering domestic violence: free calls in Russia: 8-800-7000-600.

Do not be afraid to leave, no matter how threatened you are: while staying close to such a person, you expose yourself to no less risk than when you leave. Although it is possible that the withdrawal will provoke a surge of aggression, as it happened in my case. You need to apply to the police, they can help you, perhaps, but they will fix the appeal. In the future, this may be important. In my case, there were several applications to the police, including forensic medical examination. It's not shameful or scary, it's more terrible when a woman positions herself as a defenseless victim. Deviant behavior only provokes the aggressor. It is important not to be afraid of making public the facts, not ashamed to seek help, sometimes just talking to a specialist can be of great importance. And, of course, think about children. When a child grows up in a family where home terror flourishes, his psyche will be maimed. Most likely, he will grow into the likeness of his father.

Corr: You said there was a forensic examination - did your ex-husband hit you?

IM: I pushed, I hit the car.

Corr .: The last question: after a similar story in your life, how do you look at the idea of remarriage?

IM: You want to make me an offer? (He laughs). Positively watching. If you are hoping to hear something like "All the peasants are goats, and the ex-husband is in particular", then you will not hear it. My ex-husband is unhappy, not quite a healthy person, who can be pitied. I would not like to discuss personal life in detail, this is not an appropriate topic for Internet publications. My chosen one, unlike my ex-husband, is absolutely not a public person. Therefore, I will say this: I already carry the ring on the ring finger of my right hand, we have not yet discussed the official registration of the relationship.

On this Irina said goodbye, leaving me with the phone, and a heap of prints from the Internet, more than half of which I could not ask questions. Although the picture that I had on the basis of what I read did not change much after the conversation.

Russian business as it did not cause me to trust and desire to participate in it does not cause, and the endurance of women can only be envied. I can only wish that the next series in the series entitled "Life" by Irina passed without the participation of her ex-husband, and by genre would not be a thriller, but, let's say, a love comedy or a melodrama with a happy end.

Be happy and loved.