What can you love a girl for?

Love is a feeling that prompted the greatest men of the past and the present to perform real feats. And in the future, probably, little will change! For what you can love a girl so that in the literal sense of the word "fold mountains"?

Everyone knows Pushkin's poems dedicated to Anna Kern, the songs of Jim Morrison (leader of the "Doors"), which he dedicated to his friend Pamela Courson. Nor is the sculpture of Rodin known to be inspired by Camille Claudel. A picture of Salvador Dali? Most of them simply would not exist, not appearing in his life Gala. What was so special about these women? Why can you love a girl with such power? And, maybe , these girls and women were the most usual? But men were able to find in them something special? Most likely, no one can give an answer to these questions. But even today, a lot of boys, guys and men are asking themselves the same question: "Why can you love a girl?". And let's try to answer! Truth is, we probably will not define. But why not try it?

Someone says that he loves his girl for beauty. But this is probably not love, but just sympathy, attraction. Beauty can be enchanted at first, when feelings "boil." But further beauty can be pleasant additions to other features of "ladies heart". But the girls, nevertheless, tend to be beautiful, by all means. At the same time, under beauty, they often understand the similarity with models and film actresses. But the guy the most beautiful can seem that the girl does not consider "a highlight" at all. For example, an upturned nose or dimple on the cheek.

Some say, answering the question about what one can love a girl for, that the cause of their love is the kinship of souls. And this is closer to the truth. True, in the concept of "kinship of souls" everyone has different meanings. For some, these are common interests. For others - faith in each other and the desire to support in joy and sorrow.

Someone will call the cause of love for the girl her sexuality. But this, most likely, is also not the main thing. After all, how many stunningly sexy women are left alone?

But if all of the above reasons are not true, what can you really love a girl for?

Yes, probably, for nothing concrete. After all, love - this feeling is completely irrational. And, probably, it's not for nothing that they say that if a person knows what he likes, then this is not love, but something quite different.

Strictly speaking, what's the difference, why do you love your girlfriend, and she you? The main thing is that there are feelings!

But here many men are overcome by a new question: "How to test a girl for love?". Especially often this issue worries those men who for some reason doubt the sincerity of the feelings of the chosen one. Some of them think that they "love" his money or position in society. And someone just pathologically is not confident in themselves. What to do in this situation?

You can make checks by sending your friends to the girl with flirting, or hiring a private detective who will study her whole life. And you can just calm down. And understand yourself and your relationship. Strictly speaking, if your loved one cares about you when you are sick, is interested in your opinion (not only for the sight, but for real) and listens to him, is interested in your life values and seeks to spend with you as much time as possible - her feelings, Most likely, real. Therefore, unnecessarily meticulous checks on your part can simply offend her to the depth of her soul. And to make you doubt whether she needs a relationship with you.

Then another question will bother you: "How to maintain a relationship with a girl?". And then it will not be until the checks! But the offended girl may not forgive the checks that are humiliating for her!

Love each other and enjoy every moment spent together! And life will put everything in its place!