How to live, if you do not need anyone? Let's try to figure this out

The state of depression is one of the most destructive. And, unfortunately, it's not that rare. Especially often it happens in women. This they ask in the terrible hours of loneliness: "How to live on? How to live, if you do not need anyone? Maybe it's better not to live at all then? "

A new love to forget it will help ...

Honestly, this question is rhetorical. A person may not be needed absolutely for anyone in extremely rare situations. Certainly there is someone on earth who needs to communicate with you. But you yourself deny this communication or underestimate it. "How to live, if you do not need anyone?" - Usually the one who suddenly understands that it does not need only one, but significant to her person, is asking. And it's painful to realize this at any age: at fifteen and twenty-eight, forty-five and sixty-three ... Help in this case can only follow the saying: "Wedge wedge." That is, at this moment it should be shaken up and go to the "seizure of new frontiers". Fresh love, new feelings, the newly born lover will surely dull the pain and will instill in the soul the understanding that the woman is loved again, necessary, in demand. And the question will be forgotten: "How to live, if you do not need anyone?"

Male view on the problem of loneliness and female

But someone thought about why the question is formulated precisely in this form: "How to live, if you do not need anyone?", And not in this way: "How to live, if you do not need anyone?" Why do women suffer from loneliness Sharper than men? But it happens most often because it is the representatives of the weaker sex who project their entire inner world to the chosen one. For men, besides love, there are usually other priorities, such as career, friends, hobbies. So, to prevent this from happening to you, you - a woman - must take care of yourself beforehand. Do not "dissolve" in your favorite without a trace. We also need to ensure our rear: to lead an active lifestyle and after marriage, not to be limited to family interests, not to lose friends, to have hobbies, to strive for self-improvement, to read, go to theaters, go to festivals and sports competitions. You can not in any case allow loss of meaning in life! There is nothing in the world, more precious than life - and you are given it. So you're already a chosen one, and not some ungrateful and unworthy mortal, but God himself.

The death of a loved one is the most difficult test

Another question is when a close and dear person dies. This loss is difficult to accept, it is difficult to understand. It is especially painful when children are lost ... A mother who devotes herself to her children, after their death, feels that now there is no meaning to life. But even in this situation the above suggestions help. It is easier to survive the loss of those who have other interests besides their children: a favorite work, a hobby, friends, creativity. But if life is already at dusk, and all the aforementioned ventilations the woman has lost, how to be in this case? Then we will use the "wedge-wedge" position. No, in this situation, no one advises to look for a lover, although this option is not excluded. But there is such a way of "survival" as helping those who are worse than you. Lost souls often find a way out to help disabled people, abandoned animals, suffering cares, caresses, love. Those whom you warm up in a difficult moment will respond with such a vivid reciprocal feeling that loneliness will recede into the background. And now will appear in the destiny of the one to whom you really need. Love, and you will be loved!