How many winters, how many years: "pearl" wedding on the doorstep

After you received an invitation to celebrate the anniversary of the wedding, be sure to check with the couple: "How many years together?". "Pearl" wedding can be just around the corner - and it is such an anniversary that has many beautiful customs and features.

"Read" the symbol

"Pearl" wedding celebrate the couple who lived together for 30 years. This stone symbolizes the strength of the relationship, fertility and the irresistible love between husband and wife. No wonder he was chosen as a symbol of such a date - years, pearls like necklaces, strung on a string, and the beauty of a snow-white "masterpiece" is admired all around.

So, soon you will visit such a celebration as a "pearl wedding". How many years the couple live together, you already know, now it is important to celebrate properly prepare. It's about choosing cards, thinking through toasts and, of course, buying gifts.

Gift with a pearl

It is very important to present the right gifts to this date - it is especially necessary to prepare the spouse for it. A "pearl" wedding is celebrated. How many years together husband and wife, so many pearls should be on a string of necklace, which must present the husband to his half. This, of course, is an ideal situation - in any case, this was the tradition at one time in the southern Slavs.

If finances do not allow, you can present your wife with a not very expensive piece of jewelry, for example, a bracelet, a hair clip, a ring or earrings. A good choice may be a suspension. All the same, you have been together for many years - a "pearl" wedding is not an occasion to skimp.

It is important that the gift must contain at least one pearl (and can be artificial). The requirement concerns also visitors - it is always possible to specify at spouses, who to whom and that will give, that then to pick up successful pair.

What will the guests present?

A gift in the "theme" for the 30th anniversary of a joint life can have as an element and "packing" from a pearl - a shell. Welcome products that were made with mother of pearl: figurines, various candlesticks, souvenir shells. Just show your imagination to surprise the initiators and guests with your gift.

It is permissible on this day to give a married couple, if they, of course, have no objections, a pet. And the reasons for this choice are clear - children no longer live with their parents, and in a deserted house a pet can partly fill this "niche." If you want to make a surprise, you can give the family a young tree in a pot, which will be especially symbolic if it is somehow connected with the horoscope of at least one of the spouses.

We perform rituals

If the couple have been together for many years, the "pearl" wedding should go through with observance of important rituals. When the morning of a momentous day comes, the husband and wife must throw a pearl into any pond (it is allowed to replace them with coins), and then at home at the mirror to swear an eternal love to each other. It is believed that the ritual can return feelings to the depth.

Also in the morning on the anniversary day you need to visit the church - it's good if you have time for the morning prayer. Be sure to put three candles, which will symbolize your gratitude to God for the second half, for the wonderful years and for the time that awaits you ahead.

At the very triumph, you can joke a bit. There is a ritual that will allow you to transfer your conjugal experience to an older child who is already married. This ritual checks whether a young couple can be together and for how many years. "Pearl" wedding gives you all the rights. A young couple is tied up with a rope by a rope - in this position they need to pass along a ribbon, which they put on the floor. For each step a coin is issued. At the end of the path, the culprits of the celebration will give them a ring, symbolizing a long journey side by side.